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#20: Finding extra time to start your business

#20: Finding extra time to start your business

If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “I’m too busy to work on this business idea!” or, “I wish I had more hours in the day to pursue that!,” this episode of the Shontavia Show is for you.

Life is a roller coaster and it can be incredibly  hard to keep up with it all. 

And then, if you add on top of that a nagging business idea that you want to work on, it’s no wonder that we feel like we don’t have time for ANYTHING new.

I mean, if I’m struggling with what’s already on my plate, where will the new thing fit?

How, Sway???

In this episode, I talk about where you can find more hours in the day to work on your business idea when you literally have no more time in the day.

My fundamental suggestion in this episode is for you to realistically assess where your current time is going.

You can do this easily by:

  1. Completing a three-day audit of your day-to-day to determine where you time is currently going; and
  2. Looking at your phone’s built-in screen time measurements to determine where your are giving your attention and how much you’re giving each day.

Here are some of the biggest time-drains, according to research:

Wow! that’s nearly 6 hours spent on social media, email, and getting to work for the average working professional.

I include some step-by-step suggestions on how to reclaim your time, plus a whole lot more, in the full episode.

Show Highlights:

01:02 Why busy-ness and “no time” are bad excuses

03:53 Why prioritizing other things is okay

05:17 How you can figure out where your time is going: the 3 day audit

06:39 The embarrassing places where I was wasting time and not growing my business

07:25 Where most people are losing time

09:33 How to get your wasted time back

10:28 How to measure how much time you’re spending on your phone

12:35 Where you can reclaim your time

16:49 Four things you can do right now to find more time in your day

For more, check out the full episode below.

Questions and Action: Reclaim your time!

 After you’ve had a chance to watch the video or listen to the podcast, I’d love to hear from you in the comments section!

Please answer the questions relevant to your current situation:

1. Where are you spending the most time that could be re-purposed? Did your 3-day audit show you where you’re giving time and attention to things that you shouldn’t?

2. What are your most-used apps on your phone? Is any of this time being used ineffeciently?

3. Can you find 30 minutes to 2 hours per day to spend on your business idea?

Please give as much information as you can in response to these questions. I’d be happy to share more tools and resources that help you get what you want. 

Check out the show notes at the end of this page for a few resources from this episode.

Thank you so much for joining me on this roller coaster of an experience.

I am eternally grateful that I get to do this work with creators, entrepreneurs and innovators like yourself.

                                                                  Let’s continue to make it happen,

Show Notes

Finding time to start your business: https://shontavia.com/find-time-to-start-your-business-by-finding-lost-time/

Find time to start your business: Stop scrolling: https://shontavia.com/finding-time-to-start-your-business-no-more-aimless-scrolling/

How to Check Screen Time on Dif­fer­ent Devices: https://www.guidingtech.com/check-screen-time-different-devices/

How Much Time Do People Spend on Social Media? [63+ Facts to Like, Share and Comment]: https://review42.com/how-much-time-do-people-spend-on-social-media/

How Much Time Do People Spend on Social Media in 2019? [Infographic]: https://medium.com/@JBBC/how-much-time-do-people-spend-on-social-media-in-2019-infographic-cc02c63bede8

HOW TO GROW YOUR BUSINESS & FIND TIME FOR THE CREATIVE WORK, TOO: https://www.marieforleo.com/2016/03/time-management/

#20: Finding extra time to start your business

Episode 20: Finding extra time to start your business (transcript)

(00:00):

What’s up, y’all. Welcome to The Shontavia Show, where my goal is to help you start a business based on your life’s vision. This ain’t gonna be your daddy’s business advice. I’m laser focused on entrepreneurship in the 21st century, vision and breaking the traditional mold. If you can get with that, you can get with me, be sure to visit shontavia.com for more episodes, blog posts, and other content. Thank you for listening. The show starts now.

(00:28):

What’s up everybody? I’m Shontavia Johnson and I’m here to help you start a business based on the vision you have for your life. So today’s episode is one of my favorites because it is one of the most common questions and common responses I get when I talk to people about starting a business. And basically the goal of this episode is to talk about finding time to start a business when you have no time to start a business and when you’re too busy to do the things you already have to do.

(01:02):

And this is something that is near and dear to my heart because when I really started to get serious about starting and growing my business, I was married. I had three children, I had a full time job, multiple responsibilities all over the place. I travel a lot. I, just a couple months ago, was in probably five or six different time zones in three weeks. And so, I oftentimes would say I’m too busy to really start a business. I definitely don’t have time to do anything else, let alone start a business. But over time, after, frankly talking to people with a lot more on their plate than me, what I realized is that I, like many people was primarily making excuses — using busy-ness is a cover. I don’t have a lot of the really, really challenging things that some folks deal with like death or abusive relationships or whatever.

(02:03):

But I definitely spend a lot of time complaining about busy-ness and I certainly in the past have spent an incredible amount of time just complaining about being too busy and finding enough time to do things. And what I frankly came to realize was that I was allowing my immediate circumstance from keeping me from working toward the finding time in my life to do the things I wanted to do. So creating a vision helped actually writing down what I wanted, the vision for my life to look like really actually helped a ton. And then also referring to that often and saying, well, this is what I really want. This is the kind of life I said I wanted to live. How am I actually gonna make it happen? And using “no time” as an excuse, just really was not the right thing for me to think about.

(02:58):

How to start business when I knew I had no time to do any of that stuff. So what I had been telling myself was I can’t start a business because I don’t have time. I’ve got this husband, I’ve got these three children, one of my three children was really sick for a while and when she was born. But I never really, and all the excuses I made tried to find out where my business, where my time was actually going other than in broad generalities. I knew I didn’t have time because I was always doing stuff. But what was I busy with? Where was my time actually going? And my common response was just life. Life. Life is a bitch. Life is a roller coaster, right? And I was kind of right about that. That, you know, life can be a bitch, life can be a roller coaster. I knew I’d blink in the morning and the next time I realized anything it would be tomorrow.

(03:53):

But where was my time actually going? And one of the things that I did, and one of the things I suggest to folks who want to start businesses but think they’re too busy, is to start looking, really looking, at where your time is going. And so that’s the suggestion I have today in this episode for you to take a look at where your time is going. And like for me, what I realized was when I said, “Oh no, I definitely can’t do that,” or “I don’t have time to do that.” What I really meant was I don’t want to prioritize that right now. And that’s not necessarily wrong. It is okay to prioritize anything in your life over other things. But just be honest about that and saying, I’m too busy. I don’t have time. When really, you just have other priorities.

(04:44):

And that is okay and it is nothing to feel bad about. And I think so many people beat themselves up because they think, you know, Oh, just because I’ve got a husband or a wife or whatever, or kids or a dog or a busy travel schedule or sick parents or whatever. They feel bad about having those things to do and not doing or starting a business. But then also even if you spend time starting a business, feeling guilty frankly about spending time starting a business and not doing some of these other things.

(05:17):

So I can’t answer for you where your time is going, but I do want to help you figure out where for yourself your time is actually going. I mean where is it? There’s like one of my favorite memes is this guy and he’s just asking like where it at?, where is everything? Where is the time actually going?

(05:34):

So my basic suggestion to you is to spend three days monitoring everything you do and writing it down from the moment you wake up until the moment you go to bed. And if you do this, I think you’ll be really, really surprised about where you’re spending your time. And so people use similar exercises like this for all kinds of things. Where I’ve seen it the most is people who are looking to lose weight. They ask you to monitor the food you’re eating so you can figure out where your calories are coming from and that kind of thing. This exercise is exactly the same thing. You just look like minute to minute write down and keep track of where your time is going. Don’t try to be on your best behavior while you’re doing this. Be honest with yourself so that you can find solutions that work best for your life.

(06:28):

So do that for three days consistently and maybe it takes more days depending on who you are and what your schedule is. But I think three days is a good middle ground for most people.

(06:39):

On that fourth day, do the math and figure out where you are spending your time. The first couple times I did really the first time I did this exercise, I couldn’t believe how much time I was spending on…so back then it was like mediatakeout. I was on mediatakeout a lot .com which is a gossip site. I was on Facebook way, way, way too much and I was wasting a lot of time calling myself busy when I really wasn’t busy. I was just, you know, aimlessly scrolling through things.

(07:12):

So here’s some numbers that you might be surprised about as you’re monitoring your own time and figuring out whether you’re busy for the sake of busy or you know where you are prioritizing things.

(07:25):

People spend on average 153 minutes on social media every day, 153 minutes. So that is like two and a half hours on social media each day. The average commute in the United States is around 26, 27 minutes. So you’re in the car about an hour each day.

(07:45):

The average American worker spends 352 minutes with email, replying to email, sending email, work email, personal email, 352 that is almost five hours, is that as my math right is actually six, seven, six, almost seven hours a day on email.

(08:08):

So you spend a lot of time on a lot of things that are other people’s priorities or aimless scrolling. And there are probably places as you do this exercise, if you’re anywhere near the average where you can find time, find more time to start a business. If one of your challenges is that you do not have time or you say you don’t have time or that you’re busy.

(08:38):

If you’re anywhere near the average you’re spending seven, eight hours a day just on social media and email alone. And so for me it’s easy to fall back into the trap of like checking my phone randomly, looking at Twitter or scrolling through Twitter. I think I’m doing it for five minutes and then it’s like 60 minutes or 75 minutes or whatever.

(08:59):

As you do this exercise, as you look through the three days of where you’re spending your time, and again, don’t be on your best behavior. Look for places where you might be able to change some things. I have a couple of examples of places where you can, with the limited time you have, carve out what I suggest is at least two hours and Monday through Friday, weekends depending on how you envision your life to look and whether you want to work on weekends, where you can find time.

(09:33):

So once you do this exercise, you figure out where your time is going. The next step is to figure out how to get it back.

(09:39):

So I have a couple of suggestions for you on how to get some of that time back. One of the biggest time drains for me, for example, is social media and email, but social media by far. Aimless scrolling. So one of my first suggestions is no more aimless scrolling. Now, nothing wrong with using social media, I use it all the time. But now a lot of when I’m using social media is more about starting my business and less about just like seeing what’s happening in other people’s lives that I usually don’t even know.

(10:15):

So the other place you can find where you’re using your time, so I do suggest doing this, the three day exercise, but your phone actually will tell you and it’s a little bit scary actually.

(10:28):

So whether you have an iOS phone or whether you use Android, both of those systems will show you where you’re actually using your screen time. So like for me, I use an iPhone. I’ll just spend a couple of minutes talking about how you can look at this in your iPhone. If you have an Android, this platform is called Wellbeing. So if you have an Android, go check out Wellbeing. For those of us with Apple phones, if you go to your settings and the battery setting within settings, you’ll see two graphs pop up and it’ll tell you which apps are using the most battery life. And then if you scroll down, it’ll show a list of all of the apps on your phone and how much time you’ve spent on them in the past 24 hours. And then in the past week.

(11:15):

And one of the things I saw when I did this, the first time I looked at it, I was really surprised, like in 24 hours I had spent maybe seven hours on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram alone. I actually don’t even have the Facebook app, but I was using Safari or some other browser and I was spending probably six or seven hours a day, a full almost work day on social media. And now some of that was for work. And for growing my brand and that kind of thing.

(11:42):

But that’s a ton of time to spend on social media and on various apps on my phone. So if nothing else, I recommend, hopefully you do that three day exercise. But if nothing else, go look at the apps on your phone and see where you’re actually doing things. And once you do that next step, so you figured out where you’re using a lot of your time, the next step is taking back at least two hours of your day.

(12:09):

And my opinion is that you owe this to yourself and to the business you want to start. You are giving away so much of your time and we are in a time based economy and attention based economy. You’re giving your attention to someone else right now. If you are doing that, if you are scrolling through, if you are just looking at things online without a real idea about why you’re doing those things.

(12:35):

So where can you find some time: First, no more aimless scrolling, like I said. If you do that based on how much time you’re spending on those apps right now, maybe that’s two hours by itself, but don’t scroll aimlessly anymore. Number two, be consistent as you’re starting your company with your time. Where can you be consistent with two hours, so block out a two hour chunk of time. Look at the vision that you’ve created for your life and your business and start doing that stuff every day at that specific time of day if you can.

(13:15):

If it’s not every 12 to 2:00 PM or whatever every day, at least be consistent with each day spending two hours working towards your business.

(13:25):

That might be listening to podcasts like this one. It might be learning something new, getting a new training, taking a new class, watching YouTube videos. It might be any number of different things. It might just be brainstorming, frankly, about what you want your business to look like. If you are not already starting a business what kinds of ideas do you have for starting a business? Maybe start going to workshops in your community or workshops online, but be consistent two hours a day doing something, moving toward your business.

(14:03):

Number three, you social media productively. So yeah, you social media and it’s okay. Obviously if you want to check out what’s happening with your cousins baby and your ex girlfriend from fourth grade or whatever, but also use social media productively in your business.

(14:22):

So how could you do that? So right now, if you don’t know anything else about how to start a business, but you have a really good idea, start sharing articles about those ideas. Start talking about your ideas. Start crowdsourcing ideas about how you can move forward if you’re going to be using social media, use it in a productive way for your business. Also learn from others. So the beautiful thing about the internet is there a ton of people out here doing just about everything. So go out, look at other people’s websites, at their social media pages, listen to their podcasts. Go out and meet them in person. That’s a novel concept, right, in 2019 and 2020 … Going and looking at people face to face. But go out and learn from other people and what they are actually doing. But along those same lines, do not compare yourselves to them.

(15:21):

So it is really hard to look at. Like people who may be five years ahead of you or two or three years ahead of you it’s really easy to look at them and think, “Oh, I’ll never be as good as that. I’ll never be as smart. My website won’t be as nice. My Instagram page won’t be is curated and cultivated beautifully” and blah, blah, blah, but don’t do that. I heard Iyanla Vanzant say once that when you compare yourself to others, you do a disservice to God and I actually, that was poignant for me and it made sense to me. That each of us is put on this planet for our specific purpose and our specific reason. But when we start comparing ourselves to others, we move away from the purpose we were put on this planet for and we start trying to fit ourselves into other people’s molds. And you ain’t got to do any of that. You can be yourself.

(16:09):

You can learn from folks, but don’t compare yourselves to them. And that’s hard to do. That is, and I know this is hard to do, this is something I still struggle with myelf, especially, you know, people who may have like a million followers on Twitter or Instagram or 500,000 followers on Facebook or whatever. It’s easy to look at those folks and think, “Oh, I won’t have that kind of platform.” But put all that aside. Learn what you can learn from those people so that you can, you know, start to grow your own followings and base. I mean, I do this same kind of thing myself. Learn from others, but don’t compare yourself to others.

(16:49):

I think if you do those four things, so (1) don’t scroll aimlessly. (2) Use social media productively. (3) Be consistent with what you are doing every day. Those two hours a day hopefully that you can find after doing that three-day exercise and (4) learning from, but not comparing yourself to others.

(17:09):

You will have, trust me, and amazing the transformation over the next three to six months or so. Because it’ll feel like you’re taking steps forward. And sometimes that’s the hardest part, just like moving forward and moving forward in a way that doesn’t have to be really expensive or complicated, doesn’t have to cost you a ton of time or money but just two hours a day doing something that you really, really believe strongly in–creating a starting point for your business. And you’ll be surprised — you’ll wake up three, six months from now and you’ve got a lot of the things you already need to get started in your business.

(17:49):

So I hope some of this information was helpful to you is you are thinking about starting a business but worried about where you’re going to find the time to do that. Now energy is another question, but finding the time to do these types of things, to start a business will be critically important in helping you feel like you’re taking the next steps.

(18:10):

If you’d like more about this, more about finding time when you have no time, more about what it takes to start a business. Please check me out at shontavia.com you can also find me across social media platforms @ShontaviaJEsq. Thanks so much.

(18:30):

Thank you so much for listening to this episode of The Shontavia Show. If you enjoyed this episode, please be sure to like, subscribe and leave a comment wherever you’re listening. You can find me on social media everywhere, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn, and wherever else @ShontaviaJEsq. You can also visit me at shontavia.com to find a transcript of this episode along with other show notes. While you’re there, please be sure to subscribe to my email newsletter. The information shared in this podcast and through my other platforms is designed to educate you about business and entrepreneurship and I love to do this work. While I am a lawyer, though, the information I provide is not legal advice and does not create or constitute an attorney client relationship. The Shontavia Show is a LVRG Incorporated original. The show is recorded on site in South Carolina and produced at Sit N Spin Studio in Greenville, South Carolina. Original music and sound design is by Matt Morgan and Daniel Gregory. Mixing and mastering is by Daniel Gregory and the video is by GVL Media.

#19: How to Use Conferences to Build Your Business

#19: How to Use Conferences to Build Your Business

My little secret is that I’m a strong introvert that feels really, really awkward at conferences. Even so, my participation at conferences has been one of the single-best ways that I’ve honed my skills, grown my brand, and helped real people face-to-face.

As I’ve suggested in earlier blog posts, conferences help you:(1) learn from leaders and experts in your field; (2) to build a network of similar-minded colleagues; and (3) to find speaking opportunities. I also believe they are an ideal place to be of value to other people, whether you’re speaking or not. 

In this episode of the Shontavia Show, I’m providing tools, strategies and suggestions you can use to grow your brand and business via the conference circuit.

My advice in this episode revolves around how you can get that coveted invitation from conference organizers.

I give three pieces of advice that I think you have to do to keep the speaking invitations rolling in:

1. Pick a speaking topic that fits you (I give you some suggestions about how to do this).

2. Create content around your speaking topic (I give a laundry list of the types of content you can create, including blog posts, podcasts, newsletters, videos, photography, and more).

3. Create “social proof” of your speaking abilities–even if you haven’t been invited to speak anywhere yet. 

For more, check out the full episode below.

Questions and Action: Create a conference strategy

 After you’ve had a chance to watch the video, I’d love to hear from you in the comments section!

Please answer the questions relevant to your current situation:

1. If speaking is something you want/need to do to grow your brand and business, what are you struggling with the most?

2. Can you create a list of one conference to pitch per month? Start here if you need a list of conferences to consider.

3. Have you recorded your first “speaker reel” video yet? If not, do you have a cell phone with video capabilities? Assuming you do, record a 60 second video of you talking about your expertise.

Please give as much information as you can in response to these questions. I’d be happy to share more tools and resources that help you get what you want. 

Check out the show notes at the end of this page for a few resources from this episode.

Thank you so much for joining me on this roller coaster of an experience.

I am eternally grateful that I get to do this work with creators, entrepreneurs and innovators like yourself.

                                                                  Let’s continue to make it happen,

Show Notes

Create your vision: https://shontavia.com/starthere/

List of +100 conferences: http://listofconferences.com/

Being Prepared For the Future of Events for Speakers and Event Professionals: https://gravityspeakers.com/being-prepared-for-the-future-of-events-for-speakers-and-event-professionals/ 

How Not to Pitch Yourself as a Speaker: https://archive.yellowco.co/blog/2018/05/07/how-to-not-pitch-yourself-speaker/

How to pitch for speaking opportunities at a conference: 3 tips for success: https://muckrack.com/blog/2019/02/13/how-to-pitch-for-speaking-opportunities-at-conferences

How to Pitch Yourself (or Your CEO) as a Speaker: https://www.themuse.com/advice/how-to-pitch-yourself-or-your-ceo-as-a-speaker

#19: How to Use Conferences to Build Your Business

Episode 19: How to Use Conferences to Build Your Business (transcript)

Shontavia Johnson (00:00):

What’s up, y’all. Welcome to The Shontavia Show, where my goal is to help you start a business based on your life’s vision. This ain’t gonna be your daddy’s business advice. I’m laser focused on entrepreneurship in the 21st century, vision and breaking the traditional mold. If you can get with that, you can get with me, be sure to visit shontavia.com for more episodes, blog posts, and other content. Thank you for listening. The show starts now.

Shontavia Johnson (00:28):

What’s up everybody? This is The Shontavia Show and I am Shontavia. I want to inspire you to start a business based on your life’s vision. Today’s episode is all about conferences, y’all and using conferences to grow your business and your brand, and I have to start by saying I actually am not that comfortable with conferences all the time. I am mostly an introvert though I can be kind of an extroverted introvert at times and basically what that means is that even though I can go out and like talk to people and have a good time, I need a lot of breaks.

Shontavia Johnson (01:04):

I get pretty exhausted if I’m at a conference talking about myself and listening to other people for a long time. And so I am saying you need to go to conferences as a person who really is not always that excited about spending two or three days at a conference. But I’ve found a way to make it work for my business and my brand. And I hope you do too because they can be some of the most useful tools for you to grow the thing that you’re trying to build and the brand that you are cultivating in your company and for your work.

Shontavia Johnson (01:37):

So let me start with a little story about how conferences have impacted me and been really, really dynamic opportunities for my business. So I, many years ago was working as a law professor in the Midwest and I went to a conference in Wisconsin, in Madison, Wisconsin, at the University of Wisconsin.

Shontavia Johnson (01:58):

And as part of my work as a law professor, one of the things we have to do or maybe not have to do, but it was good for your work, is to go to conferences and talk about ideas you have for research and written work, like articles and that kind of thing. So I went to a conference with an idea of actually somewhat of a, an unusual idea about the connections between science and law and human behavior and how a combination of all these things could explain why things go viral online and the crazy things people do when stuff goes viral online and why some people try to get a monopoly on memes after they go viral. So this wasn’t a fully developed idea by any stretch. It was something I had been thinking about. And when I went and gave this presentation about what I was thinking about, it did not go over well.

Shontavia Johnson (02:54):

In fact, someone afterward told me, this is really kind of a silly idea. It’s not worth writing about. I don’t get it. And that means you shouldn’t write about it. And I was a little disappointed, a little dejected about it, but I kept going. I not just kind of thought about it and researched it. I started writing it and I started writing this article. So I went out and presented again at another conference this time. And I think I was in Vermont or New Hampshire. It was somewhere in that general universe in New England. And I talked about the, at that time it was a paper and I said to the audience there, you know, I gave this presentation before. It didn’t get great feedback but I still feel pretty strongly about it. And at that conference there was a woman there who suggested that if I was looking for ways to leverage my idea and figure out how to gain some traction for this particular topic, that was a little unusual that I should submit it to this award competition.

Shontavia Johnson (03:58):

And that award competition identified the best articles in the world on trademark law and things related to like trademarks and competition. I was a little skeptical cause this is keep in mind an article that multiple people had told me was silly and I shouldn’t write it. I had never heard of the competition before either, but I entered that article and another into this competition that gets submissions from all around the world, again to identify the best topics, best articles in the world on a trademark law topic. And that year, first year I’d ever heard of it, submitted two articles on two completely different topics. I both won the competition and with for the other article and the thing that I had started writing that everybody told me I shouldn’t write was named the third best article in the world on a trademark topic. And I was talking about memes and talking about the way people act when it comes to memes and trademark law.

Shontavia Johnson (04:57):

And that article that I started out as an idea, as a conference, I actually became several other things. So writing that piece and submitting it and winning that award, some people said, “Hey, you ought to write, you know, kind of like a public piece, a public article on this same topic.” So I wrote that article too, which went up on theconversation.com which is kind of like a CNN or time.com where they have articles from experts and professors on different topics. And that led to a TEDx group reaching out to me and saying, “Hey, we have a TEDx event coming up. We’re thinking about inviting someone to talk about memes, and right now it’s between you and the person who invented the word meme and we wanted to talk to you.” So I’m thinking, okay, I’ll talk to these folks. There’s no way they’re going to invite me to give a TEDx talk on memes when they could invite and have the person who invented the word.

Shontavia Johnson (05:55):

But as it turned out, they really liked the academic topic, and then they liked the way I wrote about it publicly. We had really good engagement over the phone and that kind of thing. And I was selected to give a TEDx talk in Atlanta, Georgia in 2019 on the topic of the same thing people were telling me a couple of years ago at a conference that I shouldn’t write.

Shontavia Johnson (06:21):

So my point is with conferences that taking that first step of talking about your ideas, your work, your business, your projects, even if it’s something that isn’t resonating that much with an audience or you never know what could happen from those things. And since giving that TEDx talk, there’s been, I can’t tell you how many different opportunities I’ve gotten just from that one thing. And it would not have happened without frankly, both of those conference experiences, the first where people told me, “Hey, you really shouldn’t do that.”

Shontavia Johnson (06:56):

The second where I said, “Hey, I went to a conference, people told me I shouldn’t do it. I’m doing it anyway. Do you have any suggestions?” And someone said, “Hey, enter it into this competition.” So I want to spend some time in this episode talking to you about how you can leverage your expertise and your experiences and conferences to build your business and build your brand. In my business, because of the work I’m in, helping other people leverage their expertise to build businesses. I do speaking, I do consulting. I work with people one on one and coaching. I’m writing a book. I’m creating a class. I’m doing a lot of things that requires me to engage with other people. So what better way for me to sell myself than to say, Hey, I’ve given a TEDx talk on this topic. I’ve written publicly about this topic. I’ve been invited by fortune 100 companies and lawyers to come speak about this topic. And the same thing can be true for you.

Shontavia Johnson (07:55):

Does not matter what your expertise is. So this may not come from the work you’re doing every day, how you’re getting paid. Maybe you’re really good at parenting, juggling your kids’ schedules. Maybe you’re good at diversity and inclusion in the corporate environment. Maybe you bake cookies and cakes. It really doesn’t matter. If there’s something that you do well. I would bet my, I hate to bet my eyeteeth, but I’ll bet my eyeteeth that there’s a conference out there that revolves around your expertise. And what you can do by going to those conferences, especially as a presenter, is get people interested in and excited about your company and in my opinion, going to a conference as a speaker is a really, really great way to do that.

Shontavia Johnson (08:45):

So as you continue on your entrepreneurship path, speaking at conferences and workshops and other events can not only help you get your name out there, but also your expertise, what you’re really good at and your business with people in your field or with people who are really interested in the type of work you’re doing. Because as an entrepreneur, you really need to be out there talking to folks about your work, how you can solve their problems, the things that people are facing at their day-to-day and who better to talk to than a room of 100 or 1000 or 10,000 people with interests that are similar to yours. I have a colleague who says to me many times that the real benefit for her at the conference, in addition to know being there as a speaker, is what happens off the stage where you can talk to people one-on-one, where you really begin to build relationships with like minded folks.

Shontavia Johnson (09:47):

So there are any number of reasons why you should be considering going to conferences as a speaker and pitching yourself as a speaker. So when you go as a conference speaker in particular, your colleagues and the people in the audience are going to see you as the authority and the expert before you hit the stage. If the conference organizers thought enough of you to invite you there as a speaker, there must be something good about what you’re doing, right? So your job is to prove the audience right once you get on the stage so that you can connect with them once you get off the stage.

Shontavia Johnson (10:26):

So really, there’s three pieces to this. There’s getting invited as a conference speaker. So you’re viewed as an expert and authority in the space. It’s proving the conference organizers and the people in the audience right once you’re on the stage so that you can connect with people once you are off the stage and not just at that conference when you’re off the stage, but later through the content that you’re creating.

Shontavia Johnson (10:55):

So some people in the audience, when you go to a conference and give a talk will really, really like you. They will connect with you. They’ll share your name, they’ll share your message with other people. They’ll follow you off the stage and into the hallway for more discussions. If there are lunches or dinners, they’ll want to come sit next to you. They’ll follow you on social media and hopefully they’ll want to work with you either by hiring you to come speak at their event by buying from you or whatever. So you can begin to grow your business this way. A couple of weeks ago, I actually was at the Fulbright Association Conference. I gave a talk there. The Fulbright Association is the largest, most prestigious international education organizations on the planet. I gave a talk, actually I was invited to give a talk there about memes.

Shontavia Johnson (11:48):

I had forgotten that and afterward two people came up to me and said, “Hey, we want you to come speak to our folks in, you know, wherever.” I can’t even remember where now, but I think I’ll probably get a couple of new speaking opportunities and new opportunities to share my work and my business that way.

Shontavia Johnson (12:09):

So again, I’m the first to say this is not something that I necessarily, in a perfect world, want to do day in and day out. But in a perfect world, it is definitely awesome for me to connect with like minded people and that’s something that I want to do. Now, again, I take breaks and that kind of thing, but I continue to feel like conferences are an amazing way to leverage my expertise to build my brand and build my business. So what I’ve decided to do, because it is a little bit uncomfortable for me, is be really, really intentional about where I spend my time in conferences and where I’m going and who I’m speaking to.

Shontavia Johnson (12:51):

I want to give you some strategies for how you can do the same thing. How you can find people, places, conferences that can help you build your brand and build your business. So all you have to do is get the invitation from the conference organizers. So how do you do that? And this for me was such a mystery. I would go to conferences, I would hear speakers, sometimes I’d be really impressed, sometimes not so much and I would think, you know, well hell I can do what they’re doing or if I didn’t feel like necessarily I was there yet. I was taking notes, not just on what they were saying, but style and trying to figure out how I could get some of these opportunities to. So one avenue always of course is to work with the speaker’s bureau or having an agent like a speaking agent.

Shontavia Johnson (13:45):

I have a speaking agent now, so shout out to Gravity Speakers. They are awesome and amazing and just, you know, really been helpful for me and crafting a clear message and finding the right opportunities. So working with the speaking agent is one avenue. That’s kind of hard though because agents a lot of times want to see a history of speaking. They want to see a clear message, they want to see third party interest in you among all kinds of other things. I don’t know the secret sauce, you know, maybe I should probably get maybe my agent or some other agents to come on the show and talk a little bit about how you get signed to a speaker’s bureau. But at any rate, there are other things you can do in the interim. So the first 10 years of my business, I didn’t have a speaking agent or anything.

Shontavia Johnson (14:32):

It was just me out there looking for opportunities. So if you don’t have a speaking agent yet, there are still a ton of things you can do to get started, even if you don’t necessarily have the street cred you need to like go out immediately and get a speaking agent. So the first thing you can do is create a vision. And y’all know, I love vision, I talk about vision, vision. The whole purpose of this show is for me to help you create a business based on your life’s vision. So I believe strongly, strongly about vision. And while you don’t have to create a vision, it is so much easier to know your vision before you try to go out and speak at all these different conferences. And I say that for a couple of reasons. So you don’t want to just go out everywhere. You want to have a strategy for going to a conference and speaking to people.

Shontavia Johnson (15:27):

If the folks at this conference are not your target audience, they’re not going to engage with you. They’re not going to work with you or buy from you. It may be that is not the right place to spend your time and efforts. So the first thing with creating this vision is why are you going to go out and do this? What is the point? How does speaking ultimately fit into the vision you have for your business? So for me, one of the things is I go out and speak so that people can engage with me one-on-one. So I’m not out all the time. I am not hitting the streets 300 days a year, whatever. I have a spouse, I have three children, I have a lot of other things that I want to do in life. So I’m not out all the time.

Shontavia Johnson (16:14):

But when I do go, when I do conferences and when I do speak, I want to get a lot of bang for my buck. So I go to conferences where I know that will happen. Also, it gives me really good bases for content. So a lot of the things I’m talking about on this show and on my website, I am packaging and repurposing that content in my speaking engagements. Also, I really, really want to help people and one of the best ways I can help people is by going out and talking to them about all of the different things that go into becoming an entrepreneur and creating a business based on the vision you have for your life. So if you do have a vision, awesome. If you need a little bit of help creating a vision, you can walk through a program that I have on my website for free at shontavia.com and I’m not just saying this because I created it, but creating a vision is, is critically important and the program that I’ve developed is really, really simple.

Shontavia Johnson (17:18):

There are four videos. They’re each less than seven minutes, and I do these videos myself once every couple of years because I believe so strongly in creating a vision for my life and I just need that guidance myself. I need to look internally, I need to do a lot of the things I walked through in these videos. So you may find as you work through your vision is speaking just ain’t going to be your thing, and so if speaking ain’t going to be your thing then it’s great to know before you go out and waste time at conferences when you really don’t need to do that. If it’s not necessary for your business. Awesome, great. Let’s move on to something else.

Shontavia Johnson (18:01):

If speaking could be valuable for your business. Then the next thing I think you should do after creating a vision is choosing a topic of expertise. And I don’t mean a dissertation of things. I mean a topic that you can describe in probably two, three or four words, easy words, not like the big words you use when you look things up on thesaurus.com or whatever. We just need to know what your expertise is, conference organizers need to know what your expertise is. And actually this is something that I have struggled with a long time figuring out now how to succinctly describe my expertise because I do a lot of different things. I’m interested in a lot of different things, but I’ve had to really focus, like I could talk about memes all day long. I mentioned memes earlier. That was the foundation of my TEDx talk. I could talk about entrepreneurship, I can talk about scholarships to college. I could talk about so many different things, but figuring out your topic of extra expertise in three or four words will be important because you want to be able to communicate really broadly hey, this is what I’m good at.

Shontavia Johnson (19:17):

And I am still learning and growing in this space myself, but it’s really, really cool for you and it’s really easy for organizers if you can just in a couple of words, describe your expertise. So that’s the second thing. After creating a vision, choosing a topic of expertise.

Shontavia Johnson (19:37):

Then the third thing I am begging you to do is create content about this topic. You just chose the three or four words you just chose and share it on your own platform. If you have a website, awesome. If you don’t, get a website, if you don’t want a website, use an app or an email newsletter or something that is feasible and workable for your business. The method doesn’t matter as much as the action that you take, but you should have a platform you control, as much as we can control anything in this digital world, but you should control whatever that domain is.

Shontavia Johnson (20:21):

So like for me, I’ve got my website, I also have an email newsletter. I’m doing this show via podcast and video and then I have a private community that I’ve created. But those are all things that I have created that I manage well. I, you know, in my business and the rest of my team in my business.

Shontavia Johnson (20:41):

So what can you put on this platform once you create it? Here’s some ideas. I’m not saying you have to do all of them, but some ideas about things you can share on your own platform. So blog posts, podcasts, I just mentioned newsletters, I mentioned those things that I do. Artwork, photography, if that is your jam, videos, if that’s what you do. Audio programs, eBooks, other books, instructional guides, pamphlets, webinars, reviews of other people’s content. One of my favorite YouTube channels is a person who reviews conferences that he goes to.

Shontavia Johnson (21:25):

So even if I can’t go to Nashville next week, there’s a person who’s either been already or going who will do a review and then I can figure out if it’s something I should drop a few thousand dollars on in the next couple of years. So those are, I think I mentioned 10 or 12 different things you can share on your own platform. And so let me just say about this. I prefer sharing things on my own platform first and then moving to other people’s platforms. So like on my own platform, my website is up 24 hours a day, like every website, I presume. I’m not going to be in Alaska and California and Vermont all at the same time, Georgia, wherever. But my website can be my email newsletter, the app, all that stuff. So, so that is why I think it’s important to create your own platform. And again, I suggest posting on your own platform first before anybody else’s.

Shontavia Johnson (22:25):

So like a Twitter or Facebook or LinkedInMedium, Instagram, whatever. I think you should post on your own platforms first because when you post on social media, which you’re giving those other platforms, the right to do, usually in the terms of use, is use your content however they want. And you know, maybe somebody complains about your content and it gets removed and that happens without your control. But if you have things already on your own platform, then at least you have some digital record. You have the ability to push stuff out the way you want. So post on your own platform first. I mean move to those other things, the Facebooks, the LinkedIns, the Twitter, Instagram, Medium, whatever, but start with your own. After you do that. So we’ve done three things. Now you have a vision. You are creating content. You are choosing your topic of expertise, you’re posting on platforms.

Shontavia Johnson (23:29):

One thing you absolutely have to do if you’re going to be a conference speaker is record yourself speaking about a topic, even if it is in your kitchen or your living room or hell, even your your car or whatever. This really good lighting in your car, frankly, if you do it in your car. Practice as many times as you need to, but have a one to three minute video that you are comfortable posting on your website and sharing with conference organizers because as many times as you say, “Hey, I’m a great speaker. Hey, I’m a great speaker. Hey, I’m a great speaker.” What really proves that is actually speaking and having content that shows that you are a great speaker. So show rather than tell organizers that you’re a good speaker, that you’d be good for their event and after you’ve done all those things.

Shontavia Johnson (24:16):

The final piece of advice I will give you is find a conference and pitch yourself. Conference websites often have a speakers tab or a call for speakers tab or page on their websites where you can submit your name, submit your materials so that you can present at conferences. So I’m going to give you a little bit of homework. Go look for some conferences in your space or field. I actually keep a list of conferences that I’m thinking about is probably more than a hundred conferences on that list. If you go to listofconferences.com I’ve listed them all, there listofconferences.com, look for some conferences that you can pitch yourself at and actually do it, make that pitch, have the video. Like I mentioned, a one to three minute video of yourself. If you haven’t been anywhere speaking and recording yourself, record yourself in your living room or at your kitchen table talking about your specific topic and expertise.

Shontavia Johnson (25:24):

So please, please, please do those things. And if they’re not ready yet, so the conferences, you know, if it’s November and the conference in August of next year, maybe not, they’re not accepting a call for speakers right now, but put the deadline or when you think the deadline might be, which is, you know, it might be three, four, or five months in advance. Put it on your calendar, set a reminder, so six months from now or whatever, it’ll remind you to go back and look at that call for speakers on that website.

Shontavia Johnson (25:56):

Once you do these things, you will be well on your way to establishing yourself and your expertise at the next amazing conference in your field. And I hope you do this, and I guess I should say too, so once you pitch yourself, if when you get to the point of pitching yourself, follow up with people, don’t let that just be the last thing.

Shontavia Johnson (26:19):

Sometimes you get more of a look if you reach out and get a real person than if you send through the automated, you know, call for speakers pitch site where you know maybe there are 2000 other people who are doing the same thing. But please do these things because you will be shocked perhaps at how many opportunities you can get just by putting yourself out there and pitching yourself as a speaker.

Shontavia Johnson (26:42):

So if you have other about this other questions about conferences, about whether they would be helpful for your specific business, how you go about creating content that leverages your expertise to show, you’ll be a good speaker, let me know. If you’d like to have more discussion with me and more discussion with other entrepreneurs. Head over to shontavia.com and leave a comment about this episode. You can also read more. You can find more resources there. Thanks.

Shontavia Johnson (27:15):

Thank you so much for listening to this episode of The Shontavia Show. If you enjoyed this episode, please be sure to like, subscribe and leave a comment wherever you’re listening. You can find me on social media everywhere, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn, and wherever else @ShontaviaJEsq. You can also visit me at shontavia.com to find a transcript of this episode along with other show notes. While you’re there, please be sure to subscribe to my email newsletter. The information shared in this podcast and through my other platforms is designed to educate you about business and entrepreneurship and I love to do this work. While I am a lawyer, though, the information I provide is not legal advice and does not create or constitute an attorney client relationship. The Shontavia Show is a LVRG Incorporated original. The show is recorded on site in South Carolina and produced at Sit N Spin Studio in Greenville, South Carolina. Original music and sound design is by Matt Morgan and Daniel Gregory. Mixing and mastering is by Daniel Gregory and the video is by GVL Media.

 

#18: How to Turn a Viral Moment into a Successful Business with Sherrica Sims

#18: How to Turn a Viral Moment into a Successful Business with Sherrica Sims

We’ve all seen a viral post.

Someone posts a silly, random, or insightful comment/video/photo, and it racks up hundreds or thousands of views and likes seemingly overnight.

As the post gets more views and likes, folks start tagging two different people: their friends . . . and the Ellen Show.

I had the opportunity to speak to Sherrica Sims, one of the few people who’s gone VIRAL viral with+13 million likes, lots of media appearances, and brand deals.

Sherrica, then a stay-at-home-mom to two kids, unexpectedly went viral on YouTube in 2014 after posting a video of her 3 year old daughter eating a doughnut without permission.

Seeing the potential opportunity to leverage their millions of views (currently at more 13 million views and counting), Sherrica turned the viral moment into the Simply Sims brand-a business based on her family’s digital content.

To date, the Simply Sims brand has appeared on shows including Ellen, Little Big Shots, and Good Morning America. Simply Sims has also worked with brands like YouTube, Nickelodeon, Kohl’s, and #RyansPlayDate.

In this episode, Sherrica talks about how she’s turned a 3.5 minute video into the dynamic Simply Sims brand and her successful business, Go Be Great Productions.

If you’ve ever wondered about what happens when you go viral, and/or how to make money on the internet (even if you haven’t gone viral, this episode is for you!

Check out the full episode below:

Show Highlights

  • 02:15 How growing up in a very religious home led Sherrica Sims to finding her own voice
  • 03:13 Why Sherrica created the viral video that now has more than 13 million views
  • 04:47 How Sherrica received help in making her video go viral
  • 06:07 How people make money off of viral videos
  • 09:25 How Sherrica capitalized on the new attention from her viral video by listening to her target audience
  • 10:33 How 2 years of consistency led to a partnership with YouTube
  • 11:44 How Sherrica created a business after her viral video
  • 13:16 How having a family brand impacts the Sims family
  • 16:01 How to secure brand deals while being true to yourself
  • 19:18 How content creators make money online
  • 23:02 Three things people need to do if they want to become content creators/influencers
  • 24:47 Who’s helped Sherrica build her successful business and platform
  • 27:51 Where to find the Simply Sims brand online

Questions and Action: Are ready to capitalize on more attention?

While you can’t predict if/when any of our stuff will go viral, what you CAN do is stay ready so you don’t have to get ready.

After you’ve had a chance to watch the video, I’d love to hear from you in the comments section!

Please answer the questions relevant to your current situation:

1. If you got 100,000 new followers on social media tomorrow, would you be ready to capitalize on that new attention? What could you do today to ensure that this brand/business growth creates new opportunities for you?

2. What kind of product do you have in your business that you could sell/promote if you go viral? If you don’t have one, what could you create?

Please give as much information as you can in response to these questions. I’m happy to share more tools and resources that help you get what you want. 

Check out the show notes at the end of this page for links and resources from this episode.

Thank you so much for joining me on this roller coaster of an experience.

I am eternally grateful that I get to do this work with creators, entrepreneurs and innovators like yourself.

                                                                  Let’s continue to make it happen,

Show Notes

My 3 year old tries to get out of trouble by telling stories with Tiffany Sims: https://youtu.be/MVs71CBX7J8

Simply Sims YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UConfdDrYWwZm_rUtTYnf6hw

Simply Sims on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/simplysimsfamily/

Simply Sims on Instagram: instagram.com/simplysimsfamily

Simply Sims on Twitter: https://twitter.com/simplysimsFam

Simply Sims on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@simplysimsfamily

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