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How to avoid mistakes when searching for a patent lawyer

How to avoid mistakes when searching for a patent lawyer

9 times out of 10, if I mention that I’m a registered patent lawyer to someone, three things happen:

  • First, they get a huge smile on their face.
  • Second, they immediately tell me that they have an idea that needs to be patented.
  • Third, the heavens open up and spirited conversation ensues.

People get EXCITED about their inventions, hunty.

And I get it. Inventions are both validating and impactful (For example, just look at the Hairbrella!).

In addition, inventions can be patented in the United States and many other countries.

Patents give inventors more opportunities to raise capital, make sales, and grow companies.

But, to get a patent, you don’t just have to invent something. You have to convince the United States Patent and Trademark Office (“USPTO”) that the invention is worthy of protection.

The USPTO patent process can be long, expensive and complex. For instance, look at the USPTO’s *simplified* process flow chart:

USPTO patent flowchart

Because of this complexity, most people should not file their own patent applications.

In short, you need an experienced patent lawyer or patent agent. Both are recognized as “patent practitioners” who can file and prosecute patent applications in the USPTO. The only difference is that a patent lawyer has a law degree and an agent does not.

No matter which you choose, finding a good patent practitioner can be hard.

Inventors make three common mistakes when searching for a patent lawyer or patent agent:

  1. Waiting too long to schedule a consultation.
  2. Allowing money to keep you from talking to a patent practitioner.
  3. Choosing an unqualified person or scammy invention company.

This article shows you how to avoid these mistakes so that you can handle your business when it comes to your invention(s).

1. Don’t wait too long to schedule a consultation.

First, if you wait too long to consult with a patent practitioner, you’re (possibly) screwed.

New inventors should consult with a patent practitioner during the invention’s development phase. Ideally, this is after you’ve done enough to know there’s something there but before the invention is finished.

Above all, the United States (and every country) has specific filing rules that you must follow.

For example, once you’ve told people about your invention in a certain way, you have one year to file your patent application. No exceptions.

Patent practitioners can help you determine when and how to share information about your invention. In addition, a patent lawyer may also draft NDAs or other contracts.

But, if you wait too late, you could ruin your chance to get a patent.

Learn what experienced patent lawyer and law firm partner Nichole Hayden thinks about when you should seek patent help. 

Which leads to the second mistake I want you to avoid…

2. Don’t let money keep you from talking to a patent practitioner.

Aht aht…I know what you’re thinking…. “Girl I can’t afford a patent lawyer!”

If you googled it, you know the average cost of a patent in the U.S. from start to finish is about $50,000. That’s a lot of cash.

But, you don’t have to break the bank. For instance, most patent practitioners offer initial consults from $0 to a few hundred dollars.

Ultimately, scheduling the meeting is the easy part. The hard part is finding someone you trust within your budget.

This is why I’ve included a list of resources at the end of this article to help inventors find patent practitioners at all budget levels.

Most importantly, you’ll have to do your own research to find the right help. But, this will give you a good start.

This is a good segue to the final mistake I want you to avoid…

3. Don’t choose an unqualified person or scammy invention company.

First, let me just say that I’m not talking about any specific company, lawyer or agent.

The wrong lawyer, agent or service is worse than none at all. That is to say, if you haven’t hired anyone, at least you haven’t wasted thousands of dollars.

Sadly, unqualified *lawyers* can and do give terrible patent advice to people.

The patent system has historically excluded Black and brown inventors and other marginalized groups, and it is clear that people are desperate for this kind of information.

However, you can use your spirit of discernment and your research skills to root out bad advice.

Above all, take these three steps when doing your research:

First, search the USPTO’s database of patent practitioners.

This will help you determine whether a person is registered to file patent applications. Less than 36,000 of America’s 1.3 million lawyers are registered patent lawyers. In addition, there are less than 13,000 patent agents.

Registration requires a technical degree and passing an incredibly difficult exam (the pass rate is less than 50%). Consequently, the club is small. So, be wary of advice you get from someone who isn’t in it.

Second, search the USPTO’s patent database.

This allows you to see the scope and number of patents filed by people, companies and firms. Note that this database is dated and hard tough to navigate. However, the USPTO does offer some training videos and other resources to help.

Third, do detailed research on invention companies.

Like many people, you may consider working with an invention company. These are the services that advertise on TV, radio and in magazines. Pleeeease search the FTC and USPTO websites first for complaints and scam reports. Moreover, read the complaints and reports before making your final decision.

Whew. To sum up, there’s a lot that goes into choosing a patent practitioner. But, you must be careful when making your decision.

You’ll spend 1-2 years of your life reading and reviewing documents with your patent lawyer or patent agent.

Ultimately, if you choose the right person, you’ll end up with a patent that could open the doors for you and your company.

Do you still have questions about choosing a patent lawyer or patent agent? Let me hear from you in the comments below.

ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

1. First, some law school legal clinics are authorized by the USPTO to provide low-cost or free legal services to clients. Students work with experienced lawyers to do the work. There are +50 law school clinics certified to offer patent and/or trademark services. Find a legal clinic near you using this map.

2. Further, the USPTO Pro Bono Program gives free legal services to inventors and small businesses that meet certain financial thresholds and other criteria.

USPTO patent pro bono program

3. Moreover, a number of lawyer associations have intellectual property sections. I’m not sure whether the associations make referrals themselves, but they may be good starting points if you’re looking for certain types of patent lawyers. Here are some organizations to consider:

Increase the odds of getting what you want with goal setting

Increase the odds of getting what you want with goal setting

Earlier this year, I was desperate to learn how to increase the odds of getting what you want with goal setting. This started because I randomly clicked on my old, mostly-unrealized list of goals on my laptop.

In 2016 and 2017, I set the same four goals for myself. In other words, I had not done any of them in 2016, so I just copied and pasted them for the next year. Here they are:

1. Write book 

2. Post at least 2 times per week on blog 

3. Build national platform around IP/entrepreneurship

4. Get to healthy weight: between 125-135

Since that time, I have built a national platform around intellectual property and entrepreneurship, but nothing else.

Womp.

When I saw my old list with fresh eyes, I began to wonder (okay, obsess over) why it was that, 4-5 years later, I’m sitting at only 1 out of 4 things achieved.

Especially because I still really want those other three!

This led me to a serious deep dive on the science and data-backed research around how to create goals that I can actually work toward and attain.

I found that there are really 3 keys to setting goals that you achieve:

  1. Following a simple formula 
  2. Writing goals as affirmations 
  3. Reminding yourself of your goals every day

After figuring this out, I re-wrote a new list using these keys. And not to get too woo-woo with you, things started to shift almost immediately.

I’m sharing these keys with you here because I also want you to achieve the goals you have!

First, follow a simple formula 

Having and writing goals isn’t rocket science, but it is science. However, it requires a liiiiitle bit more than my “write book” statement from 2016 and 2017!

In 2015, Dr. Gail Matthews of Dominican University uncovered a goal-setting formula that makes you 100% more likely to achieve them.

  1. Think about your goals
  2. Write them down
  3. Write action steps for each goal
  4. Send your goals and action steps to a supportive friend
  5. Check in with that supportive friend and send weekly updates to them

If you do these five things, you are literally 100% more likely to achieve your goals according to research.

Second, write goals as affirmations 

Writing your goals as affirmations is the second key to getting the things you want. There is actually a science to this, and you can build on Dr. Matthews’ research to write goals that you actually achieve.

My suggestion is that you write your goals as affirmations. Affirmations are positive, encouraging statements that can get things flowing in your mind, heart and actions.

Hal Elrod writes about affirmations in his amazing book, The Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed to Transform Your Life (Before 8AM). Hal studied and researched the morning practices of hundreds of people (or more), and distilled the key elements in his book.

I love the way he describes writing affirmations. Here’s how to best set yourself up for success with your goal-driven affirmations:

  1. Affirm what you’re committed to
  2. Say why this is deeply meaningful to you 
  3. Write what you’re specifically committed to doing to ensuring your success
  4. Say when specifically you’re committed to implementing these activities

Going back to my 2016/2017 list, it isn’t hard to see why my list was still sitting on read but not replied to.

I didn’t make them live and I didn’t affirm much of anything.

However, I’m righting my wrongs now and you can too!

Try writing your goals as affirmations using these four steps and watch what happens.

Third, remind yourself of your goals daily

I don’t ever remember going back and looking at my 2016/2017 goals. Ultimately, I wrote them (probably around New Year’s Eve) with good intentions, but I’m certain life got busy and that list wasn’t opened too many times. Ultimately, they sat in my Evernote notebook unattended to.

This was a mistake!

Reminding yourself of what you’ve said you want is critical. Therefore, I’m using a little bit of a hack so that I see a list of what I’ve said I want each day.

I’ve created a reminder widget that I pin to the Home Screen of my phone.

Shontavia's phone hack to remind herself of her goals

Try this strategy (or something like it) to make sure that your goals don’t sit on read like mine did for years!

In conclusion, you can use these strategies to improve your odds of achieving your goals.

Set yourself up for the win!

Are you achieving the goals you set for yourself? If not, try some of these strategies and let me know if they worked for you! You can text me at 864-651-9920.

Starting a Thriving Side Hustle in a Pandemic with Anne T. Griffin

Starting a Thriving Side Hustle in a Pandemic with Anne T. Griffin

Anne T. Griffin, a product professional in tech and founder of Pivot Grow Hustle, shares her experience starting a business during the COVID-19 pandemic while working full time.

This conversation was AWESOME! Anne is very open about how she got started, what helped her the most, and the biggest mistakes she’s made.  

As a tech professional, Anne has worked with companies like Microsoft, Comcast, and Mercedes-Benz. She’s also guest lectured at Columbia University, Morgan State University, and the University of Montreal. 

One of Anne’s superpowers is attracting amazing employers and organizations. Many of the top companies on the planet have, unprompted, reached out to her wanting to hire her. 

With this background, Anne realized she could package her natural ability of attracting employers to help other people. So, during the COVID-19 pandemic, she created her business, Pivot Grow Hustle.

The business’s flagship offer is the Attract Your Dream Job course, which helps professionals attract and apply to jobs they love with more confidence and less stress. 

If you’ve been wondering about whether you should start your business, especially during the pandemic, you MUST listen to this episode. Anne drops some gems. 

Show Summary

  • 7:00 Why the COVID-19 pandemic motivated Anne to start her business

  • 8:07 Why Anne stopped giving away her intellectual property and started her own business

  • 9:56 How Anne’s Pivot Grow Hustle business helps tech professionals find their dream job

  • 16:54 The first steps Anne took when she decided to start her business during the pandemic

  • 18:11 How the Brand and Business Academy helped Anne get started the right way

  • 23:32 The two things Anne would have done differently

  • 33:41 Why you shouldn’t quit when the timeline doesn’t meet your expectations

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Show Notes:

Where to find Pivot Grow Hustle

Course: https://pivotgrowhustle.com
Twitter: https://twitter.com/pivotgrowhustle
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pivotgrowhustle/

Where to find Anne T. Griffin

Website: https://www.annetgriffin.com
Twitter: https://twitter.com/annetgriffin
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/atgrif/
LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/annetgriffin/
Tech2025: https://tech2025.com/our_team/anne-t-griffin/

Watch Anne’s Brand and Business Academy testimonial: https://youtu.be/zHLQ_0GrgAA

More About Anne T. Griffin

We Got Next with Anne T. Griffin : https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/we-got-next-with-anne-t-griffin/id1364451513?i=1000457345094

Anne Griffin – Time for Your Come Up: https://thedrwillshowpodcast.simplecast.com/episodes/anne-griffin-annetgriffin-time-for-your-come-up

Questions and Action: Are you waiting until the pandemic is over to start your business? Can you get started now?

After you’ve had a chance to watch the video, I’d love to hear from you in the comments section!

Please answer the questions relevant to your current situation:

1. What kind of business can you start that will survive and thrive during the pandemic?

2. What are you really good at that could be a business? Where do you get results naturally and without any effort? 

Please give as much information as you can in response to these questions. The real education happens when we teach and learn from each other!

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Shontavia Johnson (00:00):

What’s up, y’all. Welcome to The Shontavia Show, where my goal is to help you start a business based on your life’s vision. This ain’t gonna be your daddy’s business advice. I’m laser focused on entrepreneurship in the 21st century, vision and breaking the traditional mold. If you can get with that, you can get with me, be sure to visit shontavia.com for more episodes, blog posts, and other content. Thank you for listening. The show starts now.

Shontavia Johnson (00:36):

Hey, everybody. Welcome to another episode of the Shontavia Show, where I want to inspire you to make more income and impact with your big ideas. And I am really thrilled to have with me today Anne Griffin. Anne thank you so much for joining me.

Anne T. Griffin (00:50):

Thank you. Shontavia, I’m thrilled to be here today, especially as an alumna of the brand and business Academy.

Shontavia Johnson (00:57):

Awesome. Well, we’re going to get into that too, but before we do that, let me introduce you to everybody and is a human and product manager in that order. She’s also a product coach and a career pivot coach. She’s built her product management career working at all kinds of organizations that you’ve heard of like Microsoft, Comcast and Mercedes-Benz. And she’s currently working at a, as a product manager at a fortune 500 company. And also as the chief product and curriculum officer at tech 2025 and outside of her, nine to five, and as a side hustler, she’s got a couple of different things she’s doing, including through Griffin product and growth. She’s the chief product coach there. And then also through pivot grow hustle, and we’re going to get into all of that. And how are you doing in like this last month of 2020?

Anne T. Griffin (01:47):

I’m actually doing great. And a lot of that is because I learned some work-life balance lessons, the hard way earlier in the pandemic. So I am being a lot more intentional about how I balance just my life and all the side hustles going on.

Shontavia Johnson (02:08):

Smart. So, so, so smart. You know, I believe in that and blocking out all the noise, putting on those blinders and it looks like you have figured out, like you said, how to do that really well. And I’m wondering about your background. So you’re in tech, you’ve worked with all these big companies. Where did you grow up? What is your story? How did we get here?

Anne T. Griffin (02:29):

Yeah. So I’m from a place where most people never suspect that I’m from I’m from Minnesota originally. Both of my parents are actually in STEM. My mom is a retired floor chemist. And so basically organic chemist. My dad is a retired electrical engineer. He actually just retired on Monday 41 years at his job. Yeah. So excited for him. And so they always encourage me to be in STEM. And I always really love technology. Even though when I was growing up, it was like, you know, dos programs with like little black and white, you know, things on the computer screen with the computer. She had to turn on from the switch in the back. You know, and, but all that stuff used to really interest me. And I went to college for engineering, not being a hundred percent of what direction I wanted to go in, but I remember the year I went to college was the year the iPod came out and I remember thinking it would be so cool to be the person who gets to decide how that works and what features are there.

Anne T. Griffin (03:35):

And everyone, you know, loves it when it comes out. And I didn’t know what product management was back then, but that’s what I do now. Like that exact thought of this as would be so cool to do and build these types of things is what I get to do now, which you know, I’m really happy. And being in technology really helped me be able to go down this path because I had the technical background. I knew how to talk to the technical people, but I took a lot of different types of courses even while I was in, in engineering. So I learned a lot about the non-technical aspects of tech as well.

Shontavia Johnson (04:10):

No, that’s cool. I mean, I feel like, so I got an engineering degree too, and I did not get exposed to like all the things you can do with a tech background, right? Like you can be an engineer or you can be a product manager, you can be an intellectual property lawyer, you can do all these different things. So how did you get to the point where you went from like your engineering degree to product management? What was the like door that opened that showed you? You could do that with your degree.

Anne T. Griffin (04:41):

Yeah. So when I was in college, I had like a loose association with our campus recruiter for Microsoft. And there was one day where I was talking to that recruiter about something completely unrelated. And I guess the way I was explaining it, made them think, huh, I should ask her about an internship because she asked me, would you be interested in an internship at Microsoft? And I was like, yeah. I didn’t actually study computer engineering. I studied industrial and operations engineering. I still had to learn to code and everything, but not necessarily the typical type of engineering major Microsoft hires, but they hired me as an intern into this role called a program manager. And I didn’t know, I still hadn’t heard the term product manager. And if you’re in the tech world you’ll know Microsoft program manager is actually our product managers.

Anne T. Griffin (05:30):

And in that internship, I was like, this is awesome. I was having a great time. I got to design things that would, you know, help with the future of analytics of some of the products I got to help with things that were going to impact future API APIs. And I knew then that that’s what I wanted to do for my career, but it still took me a couple of years outside of college to like, you know, learn about product management in terms of how other parts of the call it and what that looks like and how to kind of get back on track. Because when I graduated, I also graduated during the great recession. The job I actually got was an it consulting because that’s what was hiring. So I eventually found my way into proper product management and that’s kind of how my story and the product started.

Shontavia Johnson (06:18):

Huh? No, that’s cool. So like when I graduated from law school or when I graduated from undergrad, I didn’t know anything about intellectual property. I didn’t know what patents were. I didn’t know what a plaintiff was or anything, but it was somebody similar who said, Hey, have you ever thought about this, that open that door? And I feel like entrepreneurship is similar where, you know, like you’re solving problems or somebody says, Hey, and you really good at that. Can you help me with it? And then it turns into like a full fledged business. And so I’m wondering how you went from like your day-to-day work to deciding you’re going to start a side hustle or start another business,

Anne T. Griffin (07:00):

To be honest, one of the biggest reasons was COVID-19 I remember, so–. Yeah. So I had, I had a business that was more for my public speaking and that sort of thing, but it wasn’t like that was raking in massive dollars, you know? And I actually started my LLC because of you, because I was like, okay, if I’m, I’m going to start collecting checks for this, I should at least have an LLC, but pivot grow hustle and the business in terms of having my course attract your dream job that started because of the pandemic. And for years, I’ve actually been helping people with their careers for free people have asked me for advice. I’ve helped people get jobs. And the pandemic made me really think, Oh, wow. So what if, you know, six months from now the whole of corporate America, the whole of tech looks completely different.

Anne T. Griffin (07:54):

And let’s say, you know, it’s really super competitive to find a new job, but for some reason I were to lose my job, knock on wood. That doesn’t happen. But fortunately, you know, I’ve been fine so far through the pandemic. And I also honestly, was inspired by a lot by your podcasts and things that you talk about around intellectual property. And I had done talks with O’Reilly, you know, they’re great. And I had done other talks through other people, but I realized all the courses I had been teaching other things, you know, I didn’t own the things that I was doing in my digital footprint. And I realized, okay, so I’m giving everybody else a cut of me because I don’t want to do the work to start my business. And I could have been further along by now, even if I had started small and just been like, I’m not putting big expectations on myself. I’m just going to start, you know, where I am now. And I could have been further along before the pandemic hit. I just started somewhere. And so when the pandemic hit, I was like, no more. I need my own intellectual property that I own that the only cuts I’m giving out are like, when I pay for, you know, ConvertKit or I’m paying for these tools to run my own business. But the intellectual property itself is mine.

Shontavia Johnson (09:16):

Oh, that’s so smart. That is so, so smart. I love that. I don’t know why I thought you’d had, I thought your business had been around for a while, but I mean, it sounds like your first business was. Your speaking and consulting and all of that. So pivot grow hustle was the second business.

Anne T. Griffin (09:31):

Yes.

Shontavia Johnson (09:32):

You started this year.

Anne T. Griffin (09:33):

Yeah.

Shontavia Johnson (09:33):

Okay. Okay, cool. So the pandemic hits and you see all of this around and how did you decide that this was it? So you have like product management in your background, you have engineering and your background. Why did you decide that this type of company was it and what does pivot grow hustle do?

Anne T. Griffin (09:55):

Yes. So pivot grow hustle is really about helping people pivot in their careers. And one of the things that I get asked a lot about from professionals, especially people in tech or interested in, interested in going into tech is how, how do I find my next job? Like, how do I get past the interview stage? How, how do you, you know, get all these companies interested in you? And the other thing I realized is that I have a unique skill and that I have a lot of companies coming to me without ever applying, even when I’m not looking for a job during this pandemic alone, Amazon has reached out to me three times. Facebook has reached out a couple of times, Twitter’s reached out, Zillow’s reached out, Lyft reached out. Those are just the names that people know that doesn’t include the people that, you know, when people aren’t familiar with those brands.

Anne T. Griffin (10:47):

And I thought to myself, this makes sense, because this is an area where I already have a lot of people that are seeking out my advice for this knowledge. And it’s something that frankly I know I’m very good at. And so I was like, let’s start here. I could maybe start with, you know, some of them, you know, I can start expanding other parts of my business with the product management consulting and that sort of thing as well later on. But I was like, this is easier because everyone needs a job. And people know me for, you know, how I’ve actually been building my career, product management and tech and that sort of thing. And that is why they specifically come to me. So that’s why I started this business and why I was interested in saying I’m going to help people pivot in their careers, especially in that job search part.

Shontavia Johnson (11:36):

Cool. Cool, cool. Cool. So you started the business based on your expertise, based on where people were already coming to you, you put a price tag on it and started selling to people who were already inquiring about what you were doing. Yes. Is it so that’s cool. So that’s really interesting. So you start a business in the pandemic, teaching people how to get jobs. And I imagine, so like how hard is it right now to get a job in tech? Is it easy? Is it hard? I mean, it sounds like it’s been incredibly easy for you to have all these people reaching out to you, but what is it that you’re doing that’s different and how are you teaching people that and pivot grow hustle.

Anne T. Griffin (12:14):

Yeah. So it varies from person to person and some of this will depend on also how much experience you have, but also a lot of this is going to depend on, you know, what you’re doing to market yourself. And are you using all the tools at your disposal to get noticed? Right. And that’s one of the biggest things where for me, like I said, I’m not actually applying for jobs right now, but I have a lot of companies reaching out to me and I’ll talk to people who are interested in working with me and I’ll say, okay, so, you know, how are you using LinkedIn right now? And the number one answer I hear is I don’t really, I don’t really use it. Like I, you know, I’m not really sure what to update on it. I never post. And it’s kind of like defunct, right?

Anne T. Griffin (13:00):

It would be sort of like if your business website had information from five years ago, people were like, are you still in business? You know, what’s going on? Like, people don’t know all the things you’ve added since then. And that’s basically what people are doing to their LinkedIn. And the other thing about this is people don’t know how to translate their skills from their last job into the job that they want to go into, which is a definite job search. Let’s say blocker for people who are trying to pivot into new roles, which a lot of people are like not just new roles and this is a new job, but it’s saying like I was a data scientist and now I’m trying to be a front end developer, let’s say. And so I help people kind of identify like, what specifically are you doing wrong?

Anne T. Griffin (13:45):

Also helping people pick a direction, which I’m sure you run into that too, when people are trying to start their business. And they’re saying, well, I could do a lot of things here. Like you have to niche down, like, what do you want to do? Who do you want to do it for? And then niche down from there. And I have people that say, well, I’m, I’m kind of interested in product management, but I could do project management. But then I’m also kind of interested in doing, you know, customers like service things. And I’m like, you’re going to have to pick one and focus that on your job search. Because when recruiters, you know, check out your website, check out your LinkedIn, or you send them your resume. They’re going to say, I don’t understand what this person, why this person applied, or I don’t understand why they’re interested in this or even worse.

Anne T. Griffin (14:24):

They’re not going to understand how any of your experiences relevant. And so I really help people do that. And then also figure out, especially this is important for, you know, black people, people of color, and especially, you know, the intersection of women and non binary people is really how do you also find a company that fits your values? Because it says, attract your dream job. Your dream job could easily turn into a nightmare if you don’t vet them. Right. There’s a lot of things where people get into their dream job in quotes and then find out they have such a terrible culture. And like you can’t, you know, necessarily a hundred percent of the time predict that something is going to turn into a nightmare, but there are things that you can do in the process to properly interview that company back to decide, is this a fit for me other than the fact that they’re providing a paycheck?

Anne T. Griffin (15:15):

And then we also talk about negotiation as well, because a lot of people I talked to have either never negotiated or their imposter syndrome is so big, it gets in the way of their negotiation. And that’s the other piece we also talk about in the course is imposter syndrome, because I can’t really help you with all the things I just mentioned. If your imposter syndrome is telling you that you’re not good enough to get a job as a developer, you’re not good enough to try one more time for that PM interview. And you’re not good enough, you know, to get through these interviews. A lot of this is mindset. And so we talk about that so that people stop blocking their own blessings.

Shontavia Johnson (15:51):

Oh man, I wish I would’ve had you when I was like 25, because I said this on another episode of the show recently when I was growing up, I mean, I knew people who had like “good jobs,” but I didn’t know a lot of people who liked their jobs. I didn’t know that there could actually be a dream job. I thought, you know, you just go out and you get a job and that’s what you do. You complain and you have fun on the weekends. Yeah. And so it’s awesome that you figured out how to combine, you know, like these cultural indoctrination with how you actually go out and actually like find something you really love. So that’s awesome.

Anne T. Griffin (16:33):

Yeah. And I’ve, it’s a combination of learning the hard way. Having a really great coach and also having mentors because earlier in my career, I didn’t have the mentors. I didn’t have a coach. And so I learned the hard way and I combine that with what I’ve learned along the way from like coaches and mentors.

Shontavia Johnson (16:52):

No, that’s great. That is really great. And so when you decided, okay, here’s the thing, people are reaching out to me. I know there’s something here. I can start a business. What were some of the first steps you took to actually start your business, get it off the ground and like get going.

Anne T. Griffin (17:10):

Yeah. So one of the first things I did was actually do a little bit of market research and understand what aspects of, you know, helping people pivot in their careers and also help people. Cause originally I was just like, I’m going to help people pivot in their careers, but that can mean a lot of things. And so actually there’s a course I took and it’s not the one that you would think of, there’s actually one by this person called Mo that taught me a little bit more about like how to research. And some of the things that she talked about was like, you know, do research on book titles and other things that, you know, on these topics and see what keeps reoccurring and what are the people, you know, in the comment section or the review section say about those things.

Anne T. Griffin (17:56):

And so that’s where I first figured out. I’m like, okay, here’s a great place for me to start and niche down on like what it means to help people pivot and where people, you know, there’s the highest demand in what people need help with. And that’s where I started. And then from there kind of started being like, okay, there’s a lot of things I don’t know. Which obviously led me eventually to business sorry, the Brand and Business Academy. And, and that was like really important for me because I really needed to know more about like how this was going to work from intellectual property standpoint. Cause I’m like the whole point of having my own intellectual property is not just so I can have it, but also I need to protect it. Right. And I’m not a lawyer. It’s impossible to cobble this together from the internet because the internet is not a lawyer. I mean it might, some people might think it is, but it’s not. And you know, help guide me to the right resources and also just help refine some of the things I had learned in the, like the very initial stages of my business that helped me actually have a business that I could think of as like, okay, you know, I’m going to have ups and downs, but here are the things I need to just keep doing. That’ll help me be able to continue it and grow it.

Shontavia Johnson (19:12):

Yes. I’m glad you brought that up because, one of the reasons I wanted to talk to you was I knew that your business was newer. I didn’t realize how new. I’m excited now that it’s actually is like a 2020 baby, because, you know, so I think a lot of people when they’re working full time and they started business, they just try to Google their way out of it and struggle through. So I love that you talked about like taking courses and finding mentors and experts and you answered part of the question already, but I was just kind of ask you, like, how did you decide at what point that like Google isn’t enough that you need an actual course, you need a coach, you need a guide, you need somebody who can help you.

Anne T. Griffin (19:55):

I think I learned that even before I knew I was going to start pivot grow hustle. And I’m actually, I mean, I just, so everyone knows like, Shontavia did not have me say these things, but I literally reference a lot of things that Shontavia has said and posted because I mean, she, she has inspired me for a lot of things and also I’ve been following her for awhile. So like last fall you made an Instagram post about file your LLC. If you are receiving payment or you’re providing services for something file your LLC. And I asked you a question about, you know, like, why, why this is important if maybe like, I’m not necessarily doing something consistently. Like, you know, I don’t get paid every week for being a public speaker. Right. and then I was like, well, why can’t I necessarily do a DBA?

Anne T. Griffin (20:45):

And I was also like, I understand I’m not your client. So this is technically not legal advice. So you know, but you gave me an answer that helped me kind of better make a decision for myself. And that was something where, before I saw that post, I was like, I don’t really need an LLC. I’m fine. You know, I’m just going to keep collecting checks whenever they come. And, but that really opened a door for me to see the, like the tip of the iceberg of how much, I didn’t know. And so when I was like, I’m going to start a business in a pandemic you know, there’s just, there’s a lot of scammers out there. There’s a lot of people who steal things. I mean, it’s, I was ready for like a worst case scenario come fall. So I was like, how do I make sure that I am protecting my business and my intellectual property and, you know, make sure that this is something where again, like I can have this longterm for myself and like, thinking back to like, wow, like that one little thing about, you know, forming an LLC.

Anne T. Griffin (21:49):

I didn’t know. And I’m like asking what you weren’t a complete stranger cause I knew you through Tonya, but I was asking someone I’ve never met before in an Instagram comment for advice about an LLC, which, you know, maybe the 21st century, that’s not so crazy, but that also shouldn’t, I was like that shouldn’t be where I’m getting all my advice. So I’m like, if she’s given me great advice and that’s served me, I’m like, and now she’s offering an amazing course. I’m like, I should just pay her. And there are other people where obviously I’ve like paid for their courses and coaching. You know, just because I’m like there just so many missteps you can take that will be very expensive. Which I have done some little things here and there that were expensive mistakes. You know, they’re, they’re a lot more expensive mistakes I can make if I don’t talk to the right people and I don’t pay for their expertise.

Shontavia Johnson (22:40):

That is so, so smart. And not just because you’re talking about me, but you are so, so right about that though, especially about like getting bad advice online, especially from like Instagram or Clubhouse or Twitter or whatever. And I’m curious about, like, you talked about early mistakes you made, and I’m wondering if you could share to the extent you’re comfortable. Like what, what are some of those early mistakes? Did you get bad advice from somebody online at any point? And I’m asking that because so many people who listen to this show are like, where you were last year, I guess about a year ago, wanting to start something, Googling, figuring out a few things here and there and trying to figure out like, should I spend money on this or should I like just put my nose to the ground and like work on my business?

Anne T. Griffin (23:32):

Yeah. I think one, I think there’s like two things that I would’ve done differently. One of them is as much bigger than the other, the first thing, which is not as big as I think giving myself more grace and time where I put a lot of pressure on myself to get things off the ground, like very quickly. And some of that was because of the pandemic and fear and not knowing what was going on, you know, in this crazy year. You know, but a lot of that was really self-imposed and it wasn’t really necessary. And I think I could have done things you know, in a way that was less stressful. The bigger thing is we talked about this a little bit offline or like Facebook and Instagram ads. There, there are a lot of things there that I learned and some of it was not just like I was too early, but also like my type of product is not really suited for Facebook and Instagram ads.

Anne T. Griffin (24:29):

And we, and part of that is because Facebook actually got sued maybe a year or two ago because they were actually allowing people to discriminate against women and people of color. And so now they, if anytime you’re like, I actually want to filter into women of color or anything like that. They won’t let you. So I couldn’t actually reach who my perfect customer was, which is one of the things we talk about in the brand and business Academy. And so that was like one of the red flags I, you know, ignored cause I was like, I’m going to get enough traffic. It’ll be okay. And even though as a product manager, I understand the concept of warm and cold traffic. It, you learn it differently when it’s your money you’re spending. And especially when it’s a brand new business, right. When you have a whole marketing department in a fortune 500 company, that’s done this before and they know how to, you know, do what they do.

Anne T. Griffin (25:23):

That’s great. When it’s you as an entrepreneur learning for the first time, even if you have some people helping you, if they’ve never marketed your type of product before Facebook ads and you know, you, again, these are cold leads and you’re not like prepared, you know, to spend that type of money for that type of lead. Especially again, if you’re a new business, your Facebook pixel actually has zero data about like what works and what doesn’t work for you. So it’s definitely a part where I would definitely say like it was too early fiscally in my business to invest in that sort of thing. But I learned a lot of lessons and I think it’s actually helped make me a better product manager in terms of learning more about like the different types of traffic and like how dramatically different they really are when you experience it firsthand.

Shontavia Johnson (26:17):

Yeah. So I’m so glad you brought that up. So I am not by any means a Facebook ads, Instagram ads expert. We don’t talk about ads in the brand of business Academy in part, because that is a whole genre on its own. Like it could be a whole PhD. Yeah. It really could around how you truly like niche down enough and using those strategies to get the type of results you want. And there are some courses I’m actually about to take one, some courses around like how to really master social media ads and ways to find people who you can help. And I think it’s so important that you’re talking about it in terms of, Oh, so like this is something everybody online says do, right, run Instagram ads on Facebook ads, but it’s really hard to do and taking bad advice can cost you money and time. And if you waste your time, you can end up in the complete wrong genre with all the wrong people. So I thank you for being transparent about that because it’s hard. It’s really hard.

Anne T. Griffin (27:23):

It’s really hard. And one of the things you actually said in brand and business Academy that I wasn’t, that I was like intentionally ignoring it, but a lesson I learned the hard way because I was just like, Oh my gosh, I’m so busy. I’m doing so much. And I really should have been like, I’m going to ignore all this other stuff and just focus here. Even if it feel feels. And I put that in quotes, like a slower way to, you know, grow the business is I really would have focused on building my email list. Right. I had like an initial kind of like seed on my email list. I had like maybe a hundred people to start, but really a lot of the things where you’ve said like, okay, like you should do videos or kind of do lead magnets and these sorts of things, or just make sure that you are promoting it at all and building it that way, because email list is where you make the money.

Anne T. Griffin (28:11):

And I was so inconsistent about sending out my email list cause I was doing a hundred other things. And I was just like, well, I’m doing these other things, so I’ll get to this and I get to it. It’s okay. I wasn’t pushing people to my email list during that time either. So it wasn’t even just, I wasn’t writing for it. I also wasn’t, I wasn’t actually adding anyone to it. And I think about now, like my email lists could have had more people that are my perfect customer by now. If I had just like focused on that piece of advice. And so for anyone listening major key alert, definitely, definitely.

Anne T. Griffin (28:54):

Shontavia always says this. And so I feel very silly, but you know, sometimes, sometimes you just learn, learn the heart and I didn’t meet the learn the hard way I just was like, Oh my gosh, I’m so busy. You know, but I learned the hard way about the email list thing. So, and Tonya said, Tonya Evans also has said this on Twitter. But when Shontavia tells you to do something, you better listen. If she gives you advice, anything, just listen to her.

Shontavia Johnson (29:22):

That is hilarious. I’m going to have you call my husband next and tell him that that’s funny. Yeah. That is hilarious. But now I’m not saying I’m always right about everything, but I do think like when you’re starting brand new consistency is so important and consistent– consistency where you own something, right? Like not investing so much into somebody else’s platform into somebody else’s money into somebody else’s stuff, but your own thing.

Shontavia Johnson (29:57):

So like, I don’t know how much money you gave Facebook when you ran your ads. But imagine if you would have just like taken all that energy and money and put it into your own intellectual property, your email list, your brand, your, all these other things. And I was going to ask you, like, what has been the hardest part of this whole journey for you this year? And it sounds like maybe the ads were one of those things, but I’m wondering if there are any other things like any other lessons learned, any other, like, really hard things that have existed for you as you started this year. Yeah.

Anne T. Griffin (30:32):

Going back to what I mentioned in the beginning about balance and not imposing unrealistic expectations on yourself. So unrealistic expectations in terms of timeline like launching a business and then expecting, you know, X amount of figures and X amount of months. That’s great. And some people do that. It’s not necessarily reasonable to be like, I’m going to have a five figure business in a matter of three months, you know? And that’s something where I’m like, Oh, I could really do this because I saw people online who purported to be doing that, but they don’t have the same product as me. I don’t even know if they’re telling the truth. Right. And they also might be burnt out. I don’t know what their relationship with their significant other or spouses, I don’t know, you know, what, you know, inner turmoil they’re going through. And just like kind of putting unreasonable expectations on myself or on yourself.

Anne T. Griffin (31:26):

But the unreasonable expectations I put on myself definitely kind of pushed me to the brink of burnout, which like, I never want to do that much all at once again. And it’s like, Beyonce is homecoming where she says, like, I really pushed myself to my limit and you know, I’m grateful for this experience, but I never want to work as hard again, you know? And that’s how I feel. I’m like, I I’m like super grateful for all the lessons I learned in my business this year. I feel like I probably got like two to three years worth of lessons and a nine month period of time. But you know, I’m grateful for those lessons. I never want to have to learn at that speed, like ever again.

Shontavia Johnson (32:10):

Yeah. I hear you. I remember looking at all these things you were doing and thinking, well, she’s either like going to spontaneously combust need to go to a wife or a month.

Anne T. Griffin (32:25):

I still would love to go to Hawaii. That’s actually going to going once, once, like the vaccines out I’m going to try to work from an Island for a month because yeah, I deserve.

Shontavia Johnson (32:39):

You do. You deserve and who is it? Is it Bermuda? I think who’s like recruiting Americans to come live in Bermuda for a years. Yeah.

Anne T. Griffin (32:47):

And it’s their, their application is only, I think it’s like under $300. Cause Barbados, I looked into theirs and theirs is like nearly 300, 300, $3,000. And I was like, that’s okay. Barbados. Like, I’ll see you some other time.

Shontavia Johnson (33:01):

That’s right. That is, that’s funny. That’s funny. But I love that you talk about giving yourself grace. Like that’s something I think I wrote to my email list a few weeks ago because it can be really tough to be out here. And like, like you said, you look at everybody else and you see what they’re doing and who is it? Is it Iyanla Vanzant who says comparison is the thief of joy. Somebody says that comparison is the thief of joy. And it is, especially when you’re starting your business and building and growing and your numbers don’t look the way you think they should and all those things. But I’m glad you kept pushing because you’re doing some dope things. Like it, it was all worth it.

Anne T. Griffin (33:41):

It was all worth it. Yeah. Like I definitely feel like my fall was like a major dip because I w I’ll say like, just honestly, like I was very disappointed with the outcome of like the ad situation. And there were, I’ll say there was like a brief millisecond where I was like, you could just shut it all down now. And I was like, but if I don’t quit now, I’ll actually probably gain enough people who are interested in what I’m doing. That this will be a viable business, but it just won’t be in the timeline that early pandemic Anne assumed that that, that timeline would look like. And I think that’s the thing is people quit when the timeline doesn’t look like the timeline they imagined. And I really realized that I’m like the Airbnb people, which their product, their product costs a lot more money to build than my product.

Anne T. Griffin (34:34):

And they went for years and years, failure after failure, like at the beginning of their product, they had people pay it in cash. When you showed up to the Airbnb, you know, like no credit card, like no deposit, you know, straight to just showed up and they paid you in cash. And I was like, you know, if Airbnb can make cereal boxes during, you know, a presidential election to try to keep their business afloat, you know, after years of failing, you know, I think I can make it over a year into business for a course about, you know, skills that I’m very good at that help people actually get a job that will value them and appreciate them. So, yeah, I’m just grateful for it. All.

Shontavia Johnson (35:17):

Girl, that is a sermon. That is a message right there. That is a message. And you started a business in a panedemic.

Anne T. Griffin (35:27):

And my first, my first launch, I was actually running my first, my first launch. I was like, it was launched, but I was running the first set of the course while I was also simultaneously teaching a class about AI at Columbia. And I looked back and I was like, what did I decide? That was okay. Why couldn’t I have pushed that back? But you know, I learned things and I’m, I’m much more knowledgeable now than I was. You know, back when I was working a full-time job and teaching a course on AI and teaching people how to attract their dream job,

Shontavia Johnson (36:07):

You learn things that needs to be on a t-shirt. You learn things, you learn things. I love that. And I really, really love that. And I had no, like, I know we’ve been working together for just a short amount of time, but I haven’t been so impressed to just see how things have grown for you and how like people are getting increasingly more interested in attracting any job, let alone their dream job. So I know that like, what you are doing is going to pop sometime soon, who knows what soon means to your point about like, whatever your timeline looks like, but you’re doing dope stuff. You really, really are.

Shontavia Johnson (36:46):

And as you are like looking to 2021 and 2025 and 2035, whatever else, what is the future of your business look like this? I mean, you started in the middle of the pandemic at some point, will, you know, Lord willing be out of all of this. What does the future look like for pivot grow hustle for the attract your dream job course and everything else.

Anne T. Griffin (37:11):

Yeah. So for pivot grow hustle and attract your dream job, I see attract your dream job. You know, being like the flagship course, I know I want to expand it right now. It’s at the place where it’s only live. And I actually have a lot of people who are interested that are not I’m in the Eastern time zone us who are outside of the U S who are interested in taking it. But the time zone is a little bit of a challenge for them. Or the other thing is right now, I’m running this where I start the course on a specific date, and you can still watch the recordings of the class, but generally you’re doing this when I start the cohort. So I want to make it so that I can record this and you can take it from anywhere in the world at any time, whenever you feel like you want to gain these skills, gain this knowledge.

Anne T. Griffin (37:57):

And I also want to expand it. And the thing about recording this is it’s going to actually allow me to add a lot more bonus content. That’s going to help people because when you’re doing it live, like your attention span is only so long. Right? And so there is actually a lot of stuff that I actually have, you know, in my notebook that I want to add to this course, that’s really going to help people even more. I’m undecided right now in terms of, you know, what, what other pieces look like in terms of, do I want to offer other courses that are complimentary? Especially for people who are maybe like, I feel like I’m doing a lot and I don’t actually know what direction I want to go. We talk a little bit about direction in this course, but one of the things that I hear a lot from people who aren’t an exact fit for my course is I want to change my career, but I don’t know exactly what I want to do yet, which is not those people are not like a perfect fit for my course, because you kind of have to know where you’re going to be able to attract that dream job.

Anne T. Griffin (38:58):

So I’m thinking about like, how do I create a course that helps people better explore what their interests are professionally? And like, how do you do that while you’re still collecting a paycheck or, you know, what do you, can you do if you have to get another job that maybe isn’t your dream job in the process of still discovering what the heck you were trying to do professionally, right? Or like what even imagine what a dream job is. And so I really see the course itself Attract Your Dream Job, expanding, and maybe some like smaller courses, but I actually see myself offering other things. And I’m debating like if it’s part of Griffin product and growth, or if it’s going to be part of pivot grow hustle. But I also get asked a lot about people who are interested in going into product and there’s 1,000,001 product courses, but I’m really interested in kind of creating one that will also help like women of color or just women in general, who are interested in product hearing from another woman. You know, and so that’s another thing that I’m considering, and I’m not sure which of the businesses that will fit in with yet.

Shontavia Johnson (40:09):

Sweet. No, that’s a wonderful plan. And I cannot wait to see all of it happen. Okay.

Anne T. Griffin (40:14):

Yeah. I’m excited. I’m, I’m actually like truly excited because it is, it feels very empowering to know that whatever happens like with like any day job I have, I like don’t have to be that person where it’s like, Oh, I have to use my savings to bridge that gap between job a and job B, or have to like rush into a job that isn’t a fit for me. And so for me, a song where I actually very much love being a product manager, like if I don’t, you know, create my own startup, which I mean, we’ll, we’ll see you know, it’s really great to know that I have something that I own, that I can continue to help people with you know, and be able to have that also make me more independent and make me not have to worry about, okay, where is where if my job stops tomorrow, like where is my next paycheck coming from?

Shontavia Johnson (41:08):

Oh, amen. Income and impact. Yes. That is, that is that’s dope. That’s dope. Awesome. So, and where can people find you there’s so much, I want to say, I know we’re like way over time, but where can people find you if they want to take the course, if they want to reach out to you, if they want to hire you to speak about product management, how can people get in touch with you?

Anne T. Griffin (41:28):

Yeah. So if you are interested and attract your dream job, please go to pivotgrowhustle.com. That is pivotgrowhustle.com. If you’re interested more in my product management experience or emerging technology, you can find me at annetgriffin.com and that’s annetgriffin.com. I had to think about it for a second. I was like, wait. Okay. So there’s like, cause I sometimes say where it’s like G R I a double F I N. And I started saying that in my head and we won’t go there. I’ve already have you over, but those are the two places that you can find me.

Shontavia Johnson (42:05):

Excellent. And what about on social? On

Anne T. Griffin (42:07):

Social? Yes. So I’m on Twitter. You can find pivot girl hustle at @pivotgrowhustle. You can find me also @AnneTGriffin on Twitter. I’m on Instagram. You can also find @pivotgrowhustle just as is. And I’m @atgrif on Instagram for my personal stuff. So those are all the places. And I think, I think those are the major places I’m in. You can also find me on LinkedIn I’m at /annetgriffin.

Shontavia Johnson (42:38):

Excellent. Thank you so much. And this was wonderful. I’m so excited. We got a chance to talk today.

Anne T. Griffin (42:45):

Yes, same here. Thank you for having me, Shontavia.

Shontavia Johnson (42:48):

Hey, before you go, I wanted to make sure you know about the brand and business Academy, which is the program I created to give women of color, a formula for entrepreneurship to make more income and impact with their ideas. And I really created it for people who are working, but who have these big ideas. And they’re not really sure where to get started. The, the model is pretty simple. You watch videos on demand. You receive group coaching from me, accountability from me and strategies for me and the brand and business community. And then you start your business. And I really created it so that women of color, especially black women and Hispanic and Latino women can leverage their skills and knowledge through entrepreneurship. I want you to create economic independence. Y’all we live in a world where pay inequity is real, where people just do not want to pay us what we are worth or more.

Shontavia Johnson (43:40):

And the Brand and Business Academy really takes all of the guesswork out of starting your business and starting at the very beginning at ground zero with growing your brand. And we do a few things. We give you that formula for entrepreneurship. We teach branding in an authentic and empowering way. We allow you to set a schedule that fits within your life, and then you get some amazing people in the community. Other women who are starting businesses all around the U S we set milestones and we create really a safe, culturally competent space for you. If that interests you visit brandandbusinessacademy.com. Applications are open now, and we’ll be getting started before the end of the year, so that you can go into 2021 ready for that new business and ready for that dynamic brand that I know you want.

Shontavia Johnson (44:31):

Thank you so much for listening to this episode of The Shontavia Show. If you enjoyed this episode, please be sure to like, subscribe and leave a comment wherever you’re listening. You can find me on social media everywhere, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn, and wherever else @ShontaviaJEsq. You can also visit me at shontavia.com to find a transcript of this episode along with other show notes. While you’re there, please be sure to subscribe to my email newsletter.

Shontavia Johnson (45:00):

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Shontavia Johnson (45:00):

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#42: How the Founder of Til Death Do You Tweet is Creating Her Own Path to Her Purpose

#42: How the Founder of Til Death Do You Tweet is Creating Her Own Path to Her Purpose

Stephanie Humphrey, also known as Tech Life Steph, visited the Shontavia Show to discuss navigating her career path, finding her God-given purpose, and knowing when it’s time to stay or pivot.

Stephanie is currently a technology contributor for ABC News where she worked as part of the nationally syndicated Strahan Sara & Keke team, as well as contributing to Good Morning America. Before that, she spent two years as the technology contributor to daytime talk show The Harry Show, hosted by Harry Connick, Jr. She has also been a guest expert on the daytime morning show Home & Family on The Hallmark Channel, and Sister Circle Live on TV One.

Helping students is a passion that drives Stephanie, and she has channeled this motivation into a brand and seminar called ‘Til Death Do You Tweet. Her new book “Don’t Let Your Digital Footprint Kick You in the Butt!” expands on these concepts.

Tech Life Steph has LIVED, honey. As a woman of faith, she sets an amazing example of how to listen to God even when things look out of whack.

This is an incredible conversation about the power of consistency and staying resilient through everything life throws your way!

You definitely need to hear Stephanie’s wisdom if you’re feeling frustrated or unsure about what’s next.

Show Summary

  • 00:03:00 How Stephanie’s unfulfilling career as an engineer led to her first modeling gig
  • 00:08:07 When Stephanie knew it was time to leave her engineering job
  • 00:15:09 How one 2011 meeting gave Stephanie the idea for her Tech Life Steph brand
  • 00:25:03 What Stephanie’s business looks like today
  • 00:34:13 Why Stephanie thinks everybody needs to be on LinkedIn
  • 00:42:46 How to clean up past mistakes you’ve made online
  • 00:47:20 How Stephanie went from her first event with 4 people to having her book featured in Times Square
  • 00:55:50 How to leverage unpaid opportunities for paid ones
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Show Notes:

Where to find Tech Life Steph and her book:

Book: Don’t Let Your Digital Footprint Kick You in the Butt!: A lesson in what NOT to on the internet to build your personal brand online
Website: https://www.tildeathdoyoutweet.com
Twitter: https://twitter.com/techlifesteph
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/techlifesteph/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/techlifesteph/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/sthumphrey24

More About Tech Life Steph:

Former engineer Stephanie Humphrey helps people understand technology: https://rollingout.com/2020/04/01/former-engineer-stephanie-humphrey-helps-people-understand-technology/
Internet & device solutions for back to school: https://youtu.be/nDCAbvYhMx4

*Please note that the links in italics are affiliate links. If you choose to buy from these links, I will get a commission. This is at no additional cost to you. 

Questions and Action: Where do you need to commit to consistency even when things are hard? 

After you’ve had a chance to watch the video, I’d love to hear from you in the comments section!

Please answer the questions relevant to your current situation:

1. What schedule can you create today that allows to stay consisent on the path to your purpose?

2. What things are you doing for free right now that you can leverage into paid opportunities?

Please give as much information as you can in response to these questions. The real education happens when we teach and learn from each other!

Shontavia Johnson (00:00:00):

 

What’s up, y’all. Welcome to The Shontavia Show, where my goal is to help you start a business based on your life’s vision. This ain’t gonna be your daddy’s business advice. I’m laser focused on entrepreneurship in the 21st century, vision and breaking the traditional mold. If you can get with that, you can get with me, be sure to visit shontavia.com for more episodes, blog posts, and other content. Thank you for listening. The show starts now.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:00:34):

 

Welcome to another episode of the Shontavia Show, where I want to inspire you to build the brand and business you were made for. And I am thrilled to have with me today, Stephanie Humphrey, she’s a technology and lifestyle expert. I get my entire life from her Instagram feed, her LinkedIn posts about just like using technology to make your lives better. So I want to introduce Stephanie to those of you who have not gotten your lives yet from her Instagram or her LinkedIn. She’s a former engineer who merges her passion for lifestyle media, with in-depth tech expertise, which I can attest to. Stephanie has this amazing background. She’s currently a technology contributor for ABC News. She’s worked as a, as part of the nationally syndicated Strahan Sara and Keke team, as well as contributing to Good Morning America. Before that she was part of the Harry Show hosted by Harry Connick, Jr.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:01:33):

 

Which I also love as a New Orleans boy, me having lived in New Orleans for a while, and Stephanie has a new book out called Don’t Let Your Digital Footprint Kick You in the Butt, which expands on concepts, revolving around maintaining a positive reputation online out in cyberspace. So Stephanie, thank you so much for joining me today.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:01:54):

 

Thank you so much for having me. I am super excited to be here.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:01:58):

 

So I mean it, when I say I get my life from your Instagram feed and all the different tips that you recommend, and I am so curious about your background. You’ve got all these different things in your background, from technology and engineering to modeling and television. What is your story? How did you get to this point?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:02:18):

 

It was definitely not a straight line. It was, I don’t know if you remember, like the Sunday comics at all.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:02:26):

 

I was a big fan of comics when people actually read newspapers and there was one particular comic called The Family Circus, which was about this little white family. And Billy was kind of the central figure in that, in that comic strip. And every now and again, they would do a one panel comic where his mom would say, you know, go to the store and bring back or whatever, but he would go all through over the river and through the woods and they’d show this whole little journey that he would take with these dotted lines where he’d stop and play with the dog and then, and then go climb a tree

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:03:00):

 

And then, you know, finally get to where he needed to go. And, and I always think about that when I think about my journey, because it’s been so varied and, and twisty and turny and, and up and down and left and right. And kinda not necessarily, you know, looking back big picture, it, it is not as all over the place as it might sound. I think all of those things played into, you know, where I am right now. All of it was training and education and, and preparation for that next step. And it all fits in very perfectly because, you know, God doesn’t do anything imperfectly. So it, it, it, it all fits in. But so, yeah, I was an engineer by trade and training proud Florida A & M rattler. And did my master’s degree at the University of Pennsylvania and started working at Lockheed Martin and, and did what most people do – got a good job.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:03:57):

 

You know, you go to school, you get a good job. That’s what your parents tell you to do. And yeah, you making a decent living and you’re taking vacations and you’re, you’re shopping and, and you’re going to brunch and you’re just living your best life basically. And it wasn’t my best life. I wasn’t happy at all at that job. You know, I appreciate what it allowed me to be able to do outside of the company. The flexibility that it offered me to, to grow this other brand, but I did not like the work at all. Anybody that knows me from that time will tell you, my manager would probably tell you my, my performance reviews probably reflected the fact that I was not fulfilled there at all. It just, wasn’t the type of work that I saw myself doing for, for any long-term timeframe and retiring from.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:04:48):

 

So I started looking for something, some sort of an exit strategy, and I actually did a few different things before I sort of landed where I am now. I was very much into fitness and wellness. I still am, but at the time I thought I might be a personal trainer. So I was actually certified to teach group fitness. I was teaching kickboxing and, you know, doing all that kind of thing and thought I might be, you know, the Black Lucille Roberts at some point and franchise, this whole thing and, and whatever. But through that again, the, the, the path this way, that all means something because I worked out so much, one of the women that I was going to the gym with at the time asked me to be in a fashion show. She was the manager of a Dress Barn, a retail dress store, everybody knows the Dress Barns.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:05:38):

 

And she said, come be in my show, we’re asking some regular people to, you know, model and you’ll get a discount on whatever you buy that day for being in the show. I was like, Oh, absolutely. And you know, there, there was a woman there. She had she had invited a few regular folks, i.e., me, but she also knew a woman who ran a modeling school. So she taught runway classes and whatever. So she brought some of her students to be in the show as well. And she, and I got the chatting and she’s like, do you model professionally? And I’m like, no, what are you talking about? I’m not a size zero, and I’m not, you know, six foot tall or whatever. And she may or may not have just been trying to sell me runway classes, but but the seed was planted.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:06:25):

 

And, and, and it’s funny, I actually didn’t end up paying for any of her runway classes, but she paid me to offer fitness classes at her studio, because at the time, like I said, I was, I was looking for my exit strategy. So I was, I was certified to teach. So I was teaching kickboxing to her modeling students. And then she and I were just talking about the business and, you know, she was giving me tips and stuff like that, but that was a seed that was planted. And, and, you know, I looked at it at the time as something that would be a fun distraction from cubicle life, basically, you know, 50 hours a week of, of cubicle life. And then maybe on the side, I could go do a photo shoot every now and again and make a couple extra bucks to go on vacation with.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:07:12):

 

But as I sort of started getting more involved in that, in that business and doing more on camera stuff, because modeling is what it is, you know, no, no shade. If somebody wants to pay me to take my picture, I ain’t going turn the money down. But it wasn’t anything that, again, it wasn’t something that fulfilled my soul. I didn’t really think I was, you know, contributing anything of real value. And again, that’s not to put any other models down, but I personally was just like, I just don’t want to stand around taking pictures all day. But once I got a chance to be in front of a camera, speaking to people, you know, interacting, you know, with interviews and different things like that, I was like, Oh, now this could be something, cause I know how to run my mouth clearly. So that was sort of the, the, the the beginning of, of Tech Life Steph.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:08:04):

 

I see, I see. So gosh, so many questions. I feel like so many of us have this experience where we go out, we get that first job. We think, wow, this is life. We get degrees. We get our this and our that, and it just, ain’t what it seems like when you walk into that position. I, yeah, I had a very similar position. When I graduated from law school, I went from engineering to law, out into this big firm, making a bunch of money. It looks great on the outside, but I cried every day on the way to work. And I’m wondering for you, how did you know that moment when you needed to transition. So many people get to that point? Right. But they just stay, they feel like this is what you do. What was that moment for you?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:08:52):

 

That’s a great question. I’m not sure what finally made me say, you know, I’ve, I’ve had it, cause you know, like you cried every day. I was angry every day, like just from the commute and, and you know, the people around me, like literally fist balled up when I got home and it would take me a minute to decompress. And when I got in the, in the building every day, it would take me a moment. Like people literally wouldn’t come speak to me for like 15, 20 minutes after I got to work. And then they’d be like, is it okay? Because I wasn’t even on some angry black woman, I just, I was, you could, I guess you could just feel my energy and, and the tenseness that I, that I brought into that space with me. And it was just, and I just felt, I don’t know, I got to a point where I just felt like I couldn’t do it anymore.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:09:42):

 

I was working I don’t know if it was necessarily anything at work, any one thing at work that I was like, this is it. This is the straw. But I had gotten to a point with the other stuff I was doing with the, with the modeling and acting stuff that I was doing, that I was actually making a pretty decent part-time living doing that. And I was, I I’ll tell you what it really was. I was getting sick, like literally twice a quarter. I would get really, really sick because I was running myself ragged before I left my job, um I was already working part-time at QVC as a model. So I had what I called my 2:00 AM rule there. And cause QVC is 24 hours a day. It’s live television, 24 hours a day, every day, except Christmas Day. And so my 2:00 AM rule was if I got finished at QVC at 2:00 AM or earlier, so 1:00 AM midnight, 11:00 PM, something like that.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:10:45):

 

I would go home. I would sleep. I would go into work late, like 10, 10, 11 o’clock in the morning and then stay late. But if I got done at 2:00 AM or later, so 2:00 AM 3:00 AM, 4:00 AM. I would go straight to work and sit there by myself in that cubicle, by myself at that computer by myself, you know, nodding like this and, and, you know, I’d get to leave a little bit earlier, but I was literally working around the clock. So I was getting sick. I used to get really bad sinus infections a few times a year. So I was getting sick a lot and just, it was just getting to be too much. And I’m like, something has got to give here. I’m not sure what this career’s gonna look like just yet. Because Tech Life Steph wasn’t quite born then, but I said, you know what?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:11:30):

 

I might be able to make something out of this. If I can give myself the space to do it for real, for real. So it took two years, actually I had a two year plan where I I traded in my car. I had this huge SUV that cost a ton of money and guzzled a bunch of gas. So I traded that in for something smaller and cheaper and more fuel efficient. I refinanced my house to sort of massage the, you know, escrow and, and, and the payment together, but separate. And I had a dollar amount that I wanted in the bank that I would be comfortable with, you know, that would sustain me for six months or whatever, you know, and while I was working to figure it out, and once that got done, it was time to go. I, I, it was time to go, but it was, it was a, it was a combination of things of just, you know, seeing the potential over here with the money that I was making and, and just wearing my body out completely. So it was like something something has to give. And since I don’t like the job, it’s going to be the job.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:12:39):

 

No, that’s so, gosh, I love this advice so much because I talk about this a lot. When I was growing up, I didn’t really know people who liked their jobs. I thought, you know, work was just something you did. You just did it. That’s exactly right.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:12:57):

 

I got bills to pay!

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:12:57):

 

That’s right. So I love that you say you left the thing you didn’t like, and you went to do these other things. And now you’ve created this brand Tech Life Steph is very well known. Obviously you’ve worked with some amazing people, you still continue to work with amazing people. And you said you hadn’t really started it as Tech Life Steph the brand when you left. So at what point did you go from working as a model doing QVC to a brand of your own and a business of your own? How did you do that?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:13:26):

 

So that’s a fun story. Because before, before Tech Life Steph was born, I thought I might be an entertainment journalist. I was very much into celebrity and pop culture back then. I mean, just literally every day I had like seven different, you know, entertainment blogs that I read voraciously every single day. I had to know what was going on in everybody’s life and, you know, Perez Hilton and, and The Shade Room and, and all, I was just, I was obsessed with celebrity culture back then. Don’t ask me why I have no idea why, but obsessed with celebrity culture. So I thought I would be an entertainment journalist and do red carpets and who are you wearing? And, and all that kind of stuff. And I actually did get to do a little bit of that. I did a couple of jobs with Rolling Out magazine out of Atlanta.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:14:14):

 

So we, you know, I got to be on some red carpets and all that, and it was cool. But it’s a very, very hard area to break into because everybody wants to do that. That, that seems like the glamorous, you know, thing. And, and there are a ton of actual journalists that want to do that. So as I’m, you know, you know, submitting to news networks and, and E and all of that, they’re like, Oh, where’d you go? Where’d you get your journalism degree from like I don’t have a journalism degree. So that was, that was a huge stumbling block and roadblock for me at the time. And then at, and I don’t think necessarily that there were people there were some people that were building brands doing that, but at the time, I didn’t really want to sort of start from scratch and have to, you know, even though that’s what I ended up doing with tech, but I didn’t want to, I didn’t want to have to go that route.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:15:09):

 

I just want, I wanted to, I wanted to get a job, you know, I want to get a job at a news network or something, you know, talking about entertainment. And it just, it was happening in, in dribbles, but not really. So I had an interview. I had a meeting with, I lobbied very hard to get a meeting with may, I’m going to go ahead and put a name out there cause he don’t work for them any more. Payne Brown was the VP of Diversity at Comcast at the time. And Comcast is headquartered in Philadelphia where I live I’m right outside the city. And at the time Comcast owned a part of TV One and TV One at the time had a show called TV One Access, which was a spinoff of Access Hollywood that Shaun Robinson…

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:15:55):

 

Yes! I remember this, right, right.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:16:00):

 

It was just like, I mean, Shaun Robinson, ain’t gotta be all greedy taking all the jobs like they could have somebody else for TV One.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:16:06):

 

And she could be like on NBC and, or I could at least be a correspondent and get in there and dah, dah, dah, you know what I mean? I’m like, she shouldn’t be hogging all the, all the TV jobs. And not that she was, but that in my mind, I’m like, come on. So that was my goal in getting the meeting with this guy at Comcast was to convince him that I was super fabulous and that they needed to put me on TV One Access. I was very specific in my intention and getting this meeting with this man. So it is January 2011, January 2011. I will never forget it. Cold is all get out snow on the ground the whole night. You know, I finally get this meeting with this guy and a friend of mine, very good friend of mine is a, is a stylist and brand image consultant Toi Sweeney.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:16:53):

 

And she had helped me pick out this outfit and it was– you know, showing all the curves, everything. And so I got– I’m in this dress it’s freezing– I ain’t got no stockings on. I’m in shoes that are like a half size too small, but they were the shoes that had to go with the dress. And I was like, I don’t care. This meeting is everything I got to make this meeting work. Wig, child, the whole nine hair makeup wig. So get to the, get to the meeting. And the first thing that should have alerted me to the fact that this wasn’t going to work out well for me was his receptionist, his assistant. I get in there and she’s like, Oh my God, you look amazing. You look just like a member of En Vogue. And I was like, what? And then don’t get me wrong. Those ladies are beautiful Terri, Cindy… But at the time, that was 15 years prior to that time. So I was like, that’s not really the look I was going for. I wasn’t really going for 1998 R & B groups.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:18:10):

 

So, so if that’s what she, if that’s the vibe she’s getting, I probably didn’t put this together as well as I thought I did. I was just like, Oh I it’s a compliment, but not so I was like, dang. So I get in there. Hi, Mr. Brown, you know, thanks for taking this meeting. You know, I appreciate it. I’m Stephanie Humphrey, I’m an engineer, but what I’ve been doing all the duh duh duh duh, so I’m running down, you know, my entertainment resume to him and he’s sitting there like this, literally his face and I’m like, you know, blah, blah, blah. So I talked for like 15 minutes straight. And and he’s like, what are you doing? That’s literally all he said, he said, what are you doing? And I’m like, as my bottom lip starts quivering, I’m literally trying not to cry at this point.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:19:03):

 

And he, and I’m like, I don’t, I don’t understand what you mean. And he’s like, what are you doing? I don’t understand what you’re talking about, he said, you came in here, you mentioned you used to be an engineer in passing and you haven’t talked about it again. He said, what are you doing? And, and it still hadn’t clicked for me. Cause I’m still like, I don’t know. And he said, listen, he said, I know thousands of pretty girls that want to be on a red carpet. He said, I don’t know anybody that looks like you that could do what you could do. He said, this ain’t you, this is not you. What he’s like, I don’t even know you. And I know that this ain’t, you, you are t-shirts and jeans and sneakers and you know, tomboy and all he’s like, what are you, what are you doing?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:19:57):

 

And I kid you not, God spoke to me right then. And I said, and I and I sat there for another 15 seconds. And I said, I could be a tech life expert. That was literally my response to him. I could be a tech life– He said, there you go. And Tech Life Steph was born January 2011. In that office at that moment it was like, what I’ve. And I literally spent the rest of that day. Cause I had to go, I was reporting traffic at the time because that’s a part of the journey too, me reporting traffic for the news and talking about how backed up 95 is on camera. So I had to go straight to work after that, but I literally spent the next like 36 hours wondering how I didn’t think of that myself. Like, why didn’t I think of that?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:20:48):

 

Like what have I been doing this whole time? I’ve wasted, you know, years, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. But what I came to understand was that number one, it wasn’t a waste because I needed the media training anyway. And I think I had so closely associated the idea of being an engineer with being at the job I hated that I throw the baby out with the bath water. You know, I was born an engineer. I’m always going to be, I always want to know how things work. I always want to solve problems. I always want to figure stuff out. You know what I mean? That’s all engineers do is figure out how things work. And so, you know, that’s never going to go away and, you know, understanding how I can put that together with now this new found love of running my mouth on camera was, was, you know, I just needed someone to connect those dots for me. And, and, and once he did, I was off and running.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:21:47):

 

I love that. So, so many light bulbs are going off as I’m listening to you tell that story. That Is amazing. So Tech Life Steph was born. You had not put it together in that way, but you had all this amazing background and you turned all the stuff you already had in your toolkit into a brand.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:22:07):

 

That’s right.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:22:08):

 

So it’s nine years later. You now have this amazing thriving brand. You’re on Strahan, Sara and Keke, you’ve done all these different things. You’ve become like a personal branding expert. And I’m wondering like how you view your brand and your business. Is it that you are in media and you teach people about brands or you’re a branding expert who happens to also do media. What is your brand right now as you have all these different things in your toolkit. What is the brand?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:22:39):

 

It’s so funny. That’s a great question. Cause I, I do find that I’m, I am asked now for that expertise where I don’t necessarily consider myself a branding expert. I mean, clearly something I’ve done has worked out, you know what I mean? But, but I, I don’t know that I would, I would, because I’m, I’m, I’m old school in the sense that, you know, I feel like instruction also has to come with experience, which is not necessarily true, but that’s just the way my mind works. I’m like, I’ve not taken a class on branding and I don’t have any kind of certification. And I don’t, you know what I mean? But, but clearly the experience speaks for itself and where I’ve been able to, to place myself. I would still consider myself a media personality. I am a media personality, I’m a tech contributor to a large media company.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:23:30):

 

That, that is my job and slash public speaker, because Til Death Do You Tweet is the, is the other side of that coin. And that, and that’s where the book comes in and, and the workshop and the seminar, and there are some, when I, when I do, Til Death Do You Tweet for professionals, cause there there’s three versions of it. When I do the version I do for professionals or college students, there is a content strategy conversation that happens in that workshop. But I don’t know that I would add, you know, media personality slash public speaker author slash brand. I don’t know if I would add that third slash slash branding expert to the end of it. I mean, it it’s something I can do. And maybe at some point, you know, you’ll get me, you’ll get my brand life together and help me figure out how to, how to fully incorporate that into everything else and make it make sense. But right now it’s kind of a, an add on kind of a little bit of gravy that you would get with with some of the other stuff that I do.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:24:38):

 

Yeah. So all of that is so indicative of what black women do every day. We take all this stuff. We have, we have all this knowledge, we work, whatever the full-time job is. We have all these things we’re doing outside of a full-time job and you, more than many people, I see on social media and in real life, you balance those things really well. And I would love to talk about how you do that, how you balance the tech life contributor stuff with, Til Death Do You Tweet, which is your business and your brand, how do you do that? Is it that you spend just like nights and weekends on the, on the business or how do you balance all those things?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:25:20):

 

Well, no, it’s, it’s, it’s, it’s always together and happening cause I’m not on television every day that I think it would be different if I was, I have a freelance contract with ABC News, so I’m kind of on an as needed basis. So I, I, I’m not, if I was on TV every day and if I was like Robin Roberts, Hey Robin you know, where I was getting up at 2:00 AM and was doing this thing every day, it would probably be a little bit more challenging with that. But since I’m not on television every single day, most of my days are free to work on content, you know, for Til Death Do You Tweet, to put forth marketing efforts for the book to, you know, do outreach to schools and companies and things like that. So, so there’s, there’s a lot more time in any day. I think that people realize just because I’m not on television every single day.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:26:15):

 

I see, I see. So a lot of the people who listen to the podcast who watch the videos online on YouTube are working professionals who want to start a business. They want to figure out what a business looks like. So what does your business look like? I think I know a lot of the tentacles that you kind of operate within the business, but what does your business look like?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:26:37):

 

So it’s, it’s, it’s the media stuff. So, you know, I do get paid for, for the television work that I do. It’s the public speaking stuff I do probably I’d say 3.5 speaking engagements, well maybe 2.5 speaking engagements a month. And then it is, you know, now, now it’s the book as well. The book has been actually doing pretty well. I’m pretty happy about, you know, Amazon and I’m working to the, the intention and the, and the game plan behind the book was to get it to schools. So I’m working to, you know, get it in the hands of every high school student in the country. So so there’s that I also have an online course for parents to help them understand, you know, how their kids are behaving online and social media, stuff like that. I don’t do as much marketing for that as I need to be doing. So, so those are right now, my four it’s so funny, you asked that because I was just sitting here last night, like I need another source of income. I need another revenue stream. And so they, and, and thinking about what else I could be doing passively you know, but those are the sort of the four things. So television speaking, the book, and the online, of course.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:27:59):

 

So with the book, which just came out recently, I read it, I have a nine-year-old who will be ten soon, and I had her read pieces of it and I was blown away by how much– cause I, I picked it up, well, I ordered it from Amazon and as I opened it, I thought, okay, well this is a book for kids, but as I was reading it, there’s so much advice that is also identical for adults, for entrepreneurs who are people who are building their brands online. How did the idea for the book come about? So why did you create the book in this way, whereas really marketed, like you mentioned, the high school students where there’s so much good information in there for adults and lots of different folks.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:28:40):

 

It’s so funny. And I’m so glad you said that. And I it’s been, it’s been very gratifying to hear adults say that. But the, the impetus for the book was Til Death Do You Tweet. So Til Death Do You Tweet is a, is a seminar that I do before 2020 in schools for students, parents and professionals, students, parents, or professionals that helps them understand how to be better digital citizens, how do we be better online? And I’ve been doing Til Death Do You Tweet for since 2012, really. Well, actually, I’ve been monetizing Til Death Do You Tweet since 2012, but I’ve been, I had been doing it even before that it actually sort of was born out of out of a need for relevant content because when I was working at Lockheed, I had top secret clearances. I wasn’t really at liberty to discuss and any real detail what I did.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:29:36):

 

So when my friends that were educators would ask me to come to career day and that, that, happened a lot, Oh, you’re an engineer. Oh my God, come speak to my students, come speak to my students. All right. I really, wasn’t going to show up and say, I do performance analysis and requirements verification like that, you know, and, and I, and I thought about all of those career days I ever attended as a student where you’re just falling asleep and the person’s in a suit and you can’t relate, and they’re just droning on and on about accounting or, or something. And I was just like, I will not be that person to a child. You know, I can’t do that to a kid. So I started doing this for that purpose. So I, you know, I would tell my friends, I’m like, yeah, I’ll come in and talk about being an engineer.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:30:20):

 

I was like, what? I was like, I want to talk about this first, give me, give me 20 minutes to talk about, you know, social media responsibility and, you know, all of that. And then I’ll answer any questions that kids might have about, you know, what it takes to become an engineer. And, you know, it was right around that time where we were seeing a lot of suicide, cyber bullying related suicides were happening. And I was just like, there’s, there’s something here. You know, there, there’s definitely something here that, that is not being addressed at scale in this country. And these kids are dying, so, you know, what can I do? How can I flesh this out and make it into a thing that I can then, you know, present to schools and do. So it started, you know, like it’s a very small, it was just for students at first, and as it grew and evolved that added the piece for parents and then added a piece for professionals.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:31:13):

 

But, but what I found, and, and this is probably why it resonates so well across all demographics, because what I found actually resonates with the students the same as with adults is the idea of your brand. You know, it’s like, I taught that they get that same instruction. You know, when I come in to speak to them like, you know, who knows what a brand is, and then everybody’s like, Oh, Nike and blah, blah, blah. And I’m like, do you think you’re a brand? Nobody raises their hand. And I’m like, guess what? You know what I mean? So, so, you know, we start that conversation there. It gives them that ownership. Now everybody’s sitting up, their oh, my brand, oh, shoot my brand, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. You know, especially now we’re where influencer is a more coveted job for students then engineer, you know, they study that people want to be YouTubers before they want to be doctors right now.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:32:04):

 

So, you know, kids are actually very mindful of that. They just hadn’t made that connection for themselves. So when you do that, now you can go and talk about, okay, so now here’s what can happen to your brand if you’re not being careful, but here’s what you can do to grow and develop your brand. You know? So now it’s a whole different conversation. So so that’s Til Death Do You Tweet, and the book is just an extension of that really, because, you know what I had been finding as I was talking to kids, anytime I went into a school, a principal or of school or somebody like, do you have any other resources that we could have so that we can keep this conversation going? And, you know, or if they’re an, you know, and I had like one sheets and, and, and infographics and things that I would send to them, but I was like a book would, you know, like you got to have, like you said, the multiple streams of income, thinking about how to extend the brand, you know, a book would be great, cause then they can buy and then they could duh duh duh duh duh.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:33:06):

 

So you know, I was like, I do, I’m working on a book. I’m like, it’s coming. I promise. And I was finally able to get it done. So, so it’s, it’s a lot of the same messaging, but I added exercises in there that the kids can do that a teacher would be able to, you know, kind of work through and kind of create almost a mini curriculum around and different case study examples that I use in the in-person presentation to just reinforce, you know, cyber bullying and sexting and, and things like that. And then there’s actually in the book, there’s a big LinkedIn section as well for students because, you know, if you’re in high school, like you should have a LinkedIn profile like, you should. So, so we, so there’s a big section on that in there. Some content strategy tips as well. So the book just takes Til Death Do You Tweet a few steps further.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:33:59):

 

Okay, Steph. So, gosh, so you just ruined my whole flow because I wanted to ask you all these questions about the book. But as I’m listening, I have so many questions about the book, how you built the business, about all of these things. So I wouldn’t even know where to start, but what I think I will start is with the book, because you mentioned the LinkedIn section.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:34:20):

 

And when I tell you, I took that LinkedIn section, I went to my LinkedIn page. I was like, wait a minute. Did I do this is my picture right? Do I have, you know, all these things?

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:34:33):

 

Yes. I so appreciate you including that LinkedIn section. And I actually, I’ve worked with you to get my LinkedIn stuff together, which I appreciate and respect your advice about LinkedIn. And I’m wondering why you think LinkedIn is so important for both high school students, but also for professionals who are looking to build their brands. What is it about LinkedIn? That’s different from like a Facebook or an Instagram or Twitter or whatever.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:35:00):

 

There’s so much other noise on those other platforms. You know, and, and you, you know, you, you can have a presence, I have a presence on all those other platforms as well, but you know, LinkedIn is where you handle your business. It’s the world’s largest professional social network. So I think if you’re, if you’re in business, you should be in a place where, you know, business people are. Depending on the nature of your business. I don’t know. I can’t think of a business that, where it wouldn’t be appropriate to have a presence on that platform, but it’s, it’s low hanging fruit, you know, it’s free. Basically, I mean, I wouldn’t pay for any of those premium features. So it’s free. I have, and I wouldn’t, and I, and I can tell you why later on, but you know, it’s free, it’s, low-hanging fruit, it’s, it’s it’s a place where all of your information can live if you don’t have a website yet, or if you don’t have, you know, an about.me page or something like that, yet this is sort of that digital resume where you can have, you know, upload media and photos and, and, and different things about what you do and talk about your certifications and your licenses and, and languages that you speak.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:36:10):

 

So it’s a, it’s a great repository for all of the information that makes up your personal brand. And, you know, there’s with 600, 700 million other people on there. I think there’s an expectation that you’d have a presence there. And for, you know, as we’re, as we’re really getting granular into brand and talking about SEO, you know, in your SEO strategy, like LinkedIn should, should definitely be there because they rank really high. And when someone looks for you, you want them to be finding those, those good things about you, that that best reflect your personal brand. And LinkedIn is a great way to do that.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:36:52):

 

I love that. I love that. And as you’re talking about the personal brand, that LinkedIn strategy component comes toward the end of the book. At the beginning of the book, you talk about how your personal brand is really represented by three different things, your in-person strategy, your in-writing strategy and by other people. So, and LinkedIn, I suppose, is the culmination of all three of those things in one place. How can we, as we’re building our personal brands online, whether it’s LinkedIn, which you’re convincing me, I need to do more on LinkedIn.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:37:25):

 

I mean, it wouldn’t even take extra work on your part. You do these great podcasts regularly, you post tons of content on Instagram regularly, clip it, take it apart. You know what I mean? Like, as you’re doing it, you know what I’m saying? Like, while you’re doing it, put, take another little clip and, and, and just throw it up on LinkedIn or, or throw it in your, you know, whatever scheduling tool you might be using. Throw it in for LinkedIn too. It’s, it’s not, it doesn’t, you don’t have to make it extra work. It doesn’t have to be extra work.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:37:56):

 

Duly noted, duly noted. And as I’m doing that, and as I’m thinking about my personal brand strategy on LinkedIn and elsewhere, how can you make sure all these things are working together? I think the thing that is most frustrating for me as I build my own brand as I work with other people to build theirs, is that third party component, the “by other people.” You know, like you can control what you do, the way you show up in person. You can control what you put in writing. You can’t control what other people say about your brand though. So how can you make all these things work together?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:38:31):

 

Right. So I, I get a question, a lot about people who do still have, you know, the full-time day job and, and try to get the side hustle go on. And, you know, my boss don’t want me, Bubba, Bubba. I mean, there, there, there is a case to be made for, for doing your best to try to separate those two things, but I don’t necessarily think that works very well.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:38:51):

 

Um it just gets so tricky. I think while you’re at your job, you know, within the confines of whatever your company policies are or whatever, I think there’s a way to combine, you know, what you do with what you do, basically, if that makes any sense. I think, I think there’s, I think there’s a way to, to marry those two things. So because, because the, the lessons really translate across industry, the lessons of perseverance and the lessons of sticktuitiveness and, and of, of trial and error and, you know, those, those, those stories and those stories translate across, you know, industries.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:39:37):

 

So I think you can, you can share those things on the same platform while also promoting your side business. So, so for instance, let me give you a for instance, so say, say you were an attorney, but you also baked, you know, on the side and you were trying to get your baking business that, that you, you, you, you may want to like, have a separate Instagram for your baking business, because Instagram lends itself to visual. And, you know, you throw some beautiful pictures of cupcakes up, and people will love that, but on LinkedIn, how do you do that? If you don’t want to have a whole separate page just for your baking business right now, because it’s not your full-time thing, you’re like, I just, I only have this and I’m going to be transitioning anyways. So how do I start? What’s the content strategy that connects those dots?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:40:26):

 

You know as an attorney, you know, you’re, you’re privy to your you’re in IP, you’re working with that. So you’re so-so then you have that conversation about it. So when I was setting up that dah, dah, dah, dah, I used my understanding of intellectual property law to come up with a custom, you know, technique for my, my, my cake business. So you have to be very creative sometimes and, and, and inventive and thinking about how you, how you connect those dots. I think, you know, ultimately you sort of want, and, and, and ultimately it’s only going to be just you, so you, and whatever else you do will hang off of you as the brand. So it’s, it’s not really gonna matter that you think that the things you do are, are so disparate because it’s really you. So, you know, you’re, you’re just telling your stories.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:41:25):

 

You’re, you’re relating pieces from this job pieces, from this job pieces, from, you know, home life and family life, pieces, from the stories with the kids, all of that is just going to go into, you know, brand you. And, and so that’s, that’s, I think how, how you get around that and how you think about it. I don’t think you need to try to make the separation in your mind of I’m Stephanie, the media personality, but I’m also Stephanie… I’m just Tech Life Steph. You know what I mean? And, and we’re going to make all of this make sense, you know, some kind of way. And, and, and that’s the that’s, the challenge is, is to make it all make sense, because cause people are gonna want to know all of those pieces about you,

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:42:11):

 

Right? And that’s what people love the most. We love stories. We love knowing that you’re baking. You’re also a lawyer. That you have an engineering degree and you also do this other work. And now I love following you because you do this really well. There are two people who I think do it really well. You’re one of them. The other is Bozoma Saint John, who is a marketing officer, chief marketing officer, just the way she does it, the way you do it, I think you both do it phenomenally well.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:42:40):

 

So I’m taking notes, definitely taking notes from both of you about those strategies. And the other thing you say in the book, as you’re talking about building your brand with all these different strands and insuring that there’s one picture of you, there’s also the bad stuff, right? So you go off on somebody on social. We do what Kanye West did this week, lose your damn mind on Twitter. You know, these things where there’s bad behavior. And I love your chapter in the book about this bad behavior. So I’m wondering what suggestions you can offer to people when they do mess up, because we all mess up. We’re human.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:43:20):

 

Yes, we do. We fall down but we get up.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:43:21):

 

Like your shirt, you’re wearing a shirt right now that says grace and mercy. We need it.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:43:28):

 

So the first thing you gotta do is own it, you know, own it, own it and own it and own it and own it again. I think, you know, I think that’s where Kevin Hart got messed up when he got all jammed up with that Oscar stuff. He got very defensive about the fact that I already apologized for this. You know, why do I gotta keep talking about this? Because you do, because the way social media works, that apology you gave two years ago, probably only a hundred thousand people saw it, the other billion people on the planet, didn’t see it. You know what I mean? So it, you may have to keep owning it and keep apologizing. And you can reference the fact that like, I’ve addressed this before, but I realized that not everybody may have seen that on the other apology. I want to go on record as saying, you know, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:44:16):

 

So that’s the first thing you got to own it. And then you have to be sincere about changing and, and being better. And then you have to use SEO your advantage again, search engine optimization. So consistently start to populate the internet with better stuff. You know, eventually that stuff will sink down further and further in search results. You know, somebody is always going to be able if they just really have a mind to try to dig up some dirt on you, they’re going to be able to do that no matter what, but you can make it harder for them. You can make it as hard as possible by, by pushing that content off into the, into the internet ether, if you will, by being consistent about the stuff you do from this point on. So, you know, even if you’re just curating other people’s posts and you know, I, or, or use it to your advantage, you know what I mean, to, to sort of maybe splinter your brand or evolve your brand in a different way.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:45:18):

 

You know what? I used to be super, super homophobic, but since I’ve been studying this issue, I’ve found this and this, and I wanted to share this article to let people know, and I want to do, you know, and you don’t necessarily have to take up that particular cause. But, but if it, if it’s something that, you know, you did that you legitimately regret and that you’ve legitimately tried to educate yourself on going forward, you know, you can use that to your advantage as well, and, and, and, and start sort of adding content to what you do around, you know, your understanding of, of where you’re at now with that issue.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:45:57):

 

Yeah, no, that’s great advice. And the other advice you give a book on this topic is no matter what you think you’ve deleted or how much you think you’ve scrubbed the internet, nothing goes away,

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:46:08):

 

Til death do you tweet That’s why it’s called that, it ain’t going nowhere. It ain’t going nowhere. No how. There’s just way too– like I said, you know, you may, you, you may be able to effectively bury it so that the average person can’t get to it. But you know, it’s a 15 year old with a computer in his mom’s basement can pull up anything. So, so, you know, you don’t want to get lulled into a false sense of security that, well, I deleted that post, you know, a while back. So I don’t have to worry about that. Like it still could come back, you know, it’s still very searchable and recoverable, so you gotta be mindful of that.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:46:52):

 

Yes. Excellent advice and excellent book. I encourage everybody who’s listening. Or if you’re watching this on YouTube to pick the book up, Steph has it behind her there and I’ve got my copy right here, that I’ve been reading and sharing with my children.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:47:07):

 

If you work in high school, a college and middle school, kids need this book, they really– adults need this too. They really, really do. And so a couple other questions for you, Steph, as you were talking–

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:47:20):

 

I’ve got all kinds of time, child!

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:47:20):

 

I do not want to take too much of your time, but you said two things earlier that I just cannot let you without talking about because you know, so many people, like they start their side hustle, they start their thing and may do one event or they sell one product or 10 products or whatever. And it doesn’t go that well, you talked about your first event having four people. And now like your book was, wasn’t it like on the, on the scroll in Time Square?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:47:51):

 

It was a hot new release!

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:47:56):

 

It was a hot new release in the middle of Times Square in 2020. So how did you do that? So like the first couple of times, it sounds like you, like many of us start small and you grow. Did you ever, did you ever feel like, okay, this isn’t working because it’s small. What advice do you have for people when they’re starting small?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:48:15):

 

I didn’t. And, and, and, and I’ll tell you why. Because I, I am a person of faith obviously clearly. And I didn’t choose this for myself. That’s the thing. I think that, and people are very surprised when they, when they find that out because yeah, Oh my God, you’re so good on TV. You always want to be on TV. I never wanted to be on TV. I never had any aspirations to be on television. And not even because I didn’t think I could do it, or, Oh my God, I’m not pretty enough to be on TV or I’m not this enough. Or I’m not enough. It had just never even occurred to me. You know, the idea that I could create an, a whole, a whole nother career on television. You know what I mean? Because you think about TV and it’s actors and people that want to be movie stars and all that different stuff.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:49:03):

 

And I never wanted to do any of that either. I wanted to be an engineer, like I was doing what I thought I wanted to do. I was doing, I was doing exactly what I thought I was put on this earth to do. And so, so the idea that that I’m doing, this was not my plan. It was absolutely God’s plan from day one. And I had to be obedient to that. So I don’t feel like I necessarily had a choice in the matter, because once He once He showed me what was possible, and, and how I was going to be able to help people. You know, especially once, once we made that pivot and Tech Life Steph got, got going, I was like, Oh, snap, like people need help with technology. Like people really need help. So, you know, it was that idea of I can really help people.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:49:55):

 

And if I’m going to help people, I might as well do it on the biggest platform I can, I can, you know, achieve for myself. And I like running my mouth, so why not do it on TV? So it was different things, but it’s, it started, like you said, very small, very humble beginnings. You know, I was, I was basically starting over because up to that point, like I said, I had, I had acted. I had been in two feature films. I had modeled for QVC and, and other print publications. I had reported traffic for the CBS affiliate here in Philadelphia in 95, southbound jammed from Woodhaven road down to, you know, the whole nine. So, you know, I had legitimate media experience and credibility, but I still had to start over in this space as a, as a tech, you know, personality and contributor.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:50:48):

 

So I started a blog like everybody else was doing at the time. You know, my blog was called “A matter of life and tech,” and I would just write about stuff that I thought people would care about. And, you know, let’s talk about this app today, or there’s new iPhone coming out. Let’s talk about that. Let’s write about that. You know, eventually it, it never really got super, super popular and I wasn’t necessarily trying to become a blogger per se. I just wanted to use that platform to show that I could write and use it to get bigger profile, higher profile writing assignments, which is what I did. So from that, from my own blog, I started writing for theroot.com way back in the day. They weren’t even doing tech back then. I actually originated a column for The Root called Tech 2 Go back when Sheryl Huggins was the editor.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:51:39):

 

Yeah, it was, it was like Tech and the number two and go, I originated that column there at The Root. And because that was when social media was like, really everybody had a Facebook page and Twitter was popping and, and, and Cheryl, the editor was, was very into kind of the digital space and wanted to really do a lot around that. So, so I started doing, I started writing that for, for The Root for free use that to pitch to ebony.com. So I became the tech contributor to ebony.com and Ebony Magazine for free at first. And then Jamilah shout out to Jamilah. She did start paying me and then use that to parlay on to TV, you know, because again, it was like, you know, I assumed like, okay, I’ve been, I’ve been in the media space now for, cause by, at that point it had been probably like a good five years, you know, that I was doing all the other stuff that I was doing and I got two engineering degrees. So you would think it would be just a natural transition, like, Oh, let’s bring this young lady on to talk about technology. And it was like, no, who are you? I don’t know.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:52:51):

 

What have you done? What have you done for me lately? Basically. So, so the writing was to, to build the authority that I needed to get to television because they didn’t introduce me when I got on TV as former engineer, Stephanie Humphrey, they introduced me as tech writer for ebony.com. Stephanie Humphrey is going to tell us about this new app. So, you know, you needed that street cred basically. So I spent, you know, a lot of time I spent about two years really building up that street cred as a, as a technical person, nobody even believed I was, you know, knew anything. I was like do I have to? Do I need to shrink my degrees down and put them on a button and wear them right here. So people need, people need to recognize that worked hard for them. You know, so, you know, so it was very humbling actually to have to, you know, start over for all intents and purposes and, and, and, and prove to people again, that, that I could do this in this space.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:53:48):

 

But, you know, from those writing assignments and, and outposts, I was able to get on Fox 29 here in Philadelphia, Good Day Philadelphia did segments for them, did weekly segments for them for free for like two years. And I still go on every now and again and talk about whatever. But I was able to get on QVC. I went back to QVC as the rep for HP.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:54:16):

 

Um so I sold laptops and printers and stuff for HP on QVC for two years from there. Somewhat I, and I was doing little stuff still with news and media. There wasn’t a whole lot I could do because of con because of a conflict of interest things with QVC, but I was still doing little stuff and someone saw me saw my YouTube channel, one of the producers at the Harry Show saw my YouTube channel and was like, we’re trying to get our Harry Connick is getting a talk show and we’re getting all our experts together and you would be perfect at the tech expert and blah, blah, blah. So did that. And then, you know, parlayed that into at right after Harry got canceled was when Strahan, Sarah and KeKe it was actually just Strahan and Sarah at the time. Keke wasn’t there yet, but that started happening right at right as, as I was transitioning from Harry when his show got canceled. So was able to kind of get a foot in the door there. And you know, I’ve been rolling ever since.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:55:14):

 

I hope this is the second book. This whole, the memoir, and really the importance of content, your content is your currency.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:55:24):

 

That’s right.

 

Shontavia Johnson (00:55:26):

 

You parlayed your content from, it sounds like humble beginnings, your own blog into these huge platforms. Like in the scope of, I don’t know how long we’ve been talking, but you’ve dropped like all the things I love all the names of things I love, and you’ve done that through your content. So that is really, really incredible. Thank you so much for chatting with me today. This has been great.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:55:50):

 

It has been my pleasure. And I would just say, you know, to anybody that, like you said, did the one event and then things didn’t really seem like they was popping off. And then they decided that maybe this is not for me. Like, honestly, all of this is great that we just talked about for the past hour, but it’s the persistence that’s going to get you there. And it’s going to take, as long as it’s going to take you have to, you have to really internalize that idea and be okay with it, you know, and if that means you might need to keep another little side hustle just to keep the lights on in the meantime, you know, then so be it. But none of this would have mattered. Had I, because there were plenty of moments when I could have like, this ain’t working out, somebody else had told me, no, I’m sick of this.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:56:35):

 

I’m saying, you know what I mean? There were plenty of moments where I could have just chucked, chucked up the deuces and been like, I’m gonna just go back and get me a real job and, and forget about it. But you know what one, again, it was, it was my faith, because again, I, I did not choose this. And the fact that things kept working out, I was like, well, clearly, you know, I’m supposed to be here cause thing keep working out. And I, and I, and I have been trying to be, you know, at obedient to God’s plan as I can, but, but also I do actually love this. You know what I mean? Cause, cause God knows better than I do. And, and I love this. Like I love that I’ve been doing it for a long time without pay.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:57:18):

 

This is you know, find something you would do, even if you didn’t make a dollar, you know what I mean? All those little memes you say like, I would, I would be doing this regardless. I don’t get paid for the 60 Second Tech Break, but I love putting that content out there. But if there’s a sponsor watching you know, please feel free to reach out. But I just, I love to do it because I know I’m helping people. This is my ministry. This is the way I serve. So you know, I do it with the understanding that the reward, whatever, whatever that reward you’re seeking, will come, you know, and it might just be the satisfaction of knowing you help somebody save some money with the app they just download. Maybe that’s all you get that day. You know, maybe that’s all you get that month or that quarter.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:58:04):

 

As far as payment goes,ubut you know, I’m, I’m focused on a bigger picture. I know, you know what God has in store for me. So you really, you really have to fix your mind with the understanding that it’s going to take a while.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:58:21):

 

You know, you might get lucky and just go viral and blow up and be able to ride that wave to retirement. But the likelihood of that is very, very small. It’s probably gonna take a lot longer than you think. And so that’s why you need to make sure that it’s something that you actually want to do. I think, you know social media has gotten us on this entrepreneur culture kick that got everybody looking for a side hustle and doing stuff that they don’t actually even want to you don’t like real estate tell the truth.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:58:51):

 

You don’t really want to be a, you don’t want to flip houses. You don’t even want to, you don’t even like home improvement. You know what I’m saying? So, so why are you just trying to be on this bandwagon because that’s what everybody else is doing because it looks hot on Instagram. So, you know, that’s the first thing you gotta do is make sure that this is something you actually want to do. And you love to do because it’s not for the faint of heart. It’s not for suckers. You know what I mean? You gotta make sure it isn’t something you really want to because they’re going to be those moments where, you know, you don’t think you can keep going. And, and thankfully, you know, I’m a company of one and the things that I do are, are largely just coming from my own head.

 

Stephanie Humphrey (00:59:30):

 

So I don’t have the overhead of a, of a physical location and, you know plant paying employees and things like that. So I understand those might be considerations for, for people. And they feel like I can’t keep this up and it’s a lot to do, but, but I think there’s always a way to pivot. You know, if it’s something you truly love, I figure, I feel like there’s always a way to pivot to do it, you know, more cost-effectively and and, and you, you, you just gotta hang in there that that’s I wish I had something else I could tell you that was going to be like, you know, you did it, but it honestly is. You just got to hang in there.

 

Shontavia Johnson (01:00:07):

 

Girl, pass the collection plate, because I’m in your hallelujah corner right now. I feel like this is a good message for everybody. Me included. This was awesome. Steph, thank you. So, so, so very much and tell the people how they can find you. How can we find you? Where can we get the book? How, what is all your information?

 

Stephanie Humphrey (01:00:31):

 

All that, all that https://www.tildeathdoyoutweet.com one L T I L https://www.tildeathdoyoutweet.com. You can get the book there. You can find out about the seminar. You can find out about the online class for parents, and you can follow me all around the web at @TechLifeSteph, because brand consistency.

 

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The information shared in this podcast and through my other platforms is designed to educate you about business and entrepreneurship. And I love to do this work while I am a lawyer, though, the information I provide is not legal advice and does not create or constitute an attorney client relationship.

 

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#41: How women of color can survive and thrive in 2020

#41: How women of color can survive and thrive in 2020

Well, it’s been a minute. Between the anti-racism protests, COVID, the 2020 election, #ENDSARS, and everything else, life has been one huge, unpredictable roller coaster.

Your girl has been watching, waiting, and taking some downtime. Some of it has felt like self-care. Some of it has felt like my old friend, procrastination. 

In this episode of the Shontavia Show, I wanted to talk to you about my hiatus, what I’ve been up to, and what I’ve learned about surviving and thriving in uncertain times. 

My basic suggestions in the episode are that, to survive and thrive right now, you should consider:

  1. Educating yourself on something you’ve been thinking about,
  2. Pursuing economic independence, and
  3.  Doing good while being good to yourself (especially when it comes to giving yourself grace!).

These three things have really helped me navigate 2020–especially educating myself and learning from other Black women. Check out the links below for more.

Show Summary

00:01:34 Girl, where you been?

00:06:49 Join my new book club!

00:09:21 The first thing you can do to survive: get educated

00:10:38 The three courses I took to make five figures in five months

00:17:13 The second thing you can do to survive: pursue economic independence/financial freedom

00:22:15 The third thing you can do to survive: do good in the world and give yourself grace

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What’s up, y’all. Welcome to The Shontavia Show, where my goal is to help you start a business based on your life’s vision. This ain’t gonna be your daddy’s business advice. I’m laser focused on entrepreneurship in the 21st century, vision and breaking the traditional mold. If you can get with that, you can get with me, be sure to visit shontavia.com for more episodes, blog posts, and other content. Thank you for listening. The show starts now.

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Hey everybody. I’m Shontavia Johnson, and this is another episode of the Shontavia Show, where I want to inspire you to make more income and impact using entrepreneurship. And it has been a while. I know it’s been a long time since you heard from me last, it’s been about three months and I just have to be real with y’all. It has been a rough three months and it mostly has been a rough three months because of a principle I learned about a long time ago and was reminded about recently called upper limiting. So there’s this book by Gay Hendricks called The Big Leap. And it’s a book that I’ve read multiple times, but I need to go back and remind myself about the principles of the book pretty frequently. But one of the principles in the book is this concept of upper limiting yourself. And it’s basically, self-destruction where you get to a certain level of success.

(01:34):

You get to a point where you’ve got some good things happen, and then you basically do something self-destructive, or maybe not even self destructive, but you do something that stops the flow of those good things happening. And it is called upper limiting. And just to be real transparent, I feel like I’ve been upper limiting myself. Things were going really well. And the podcast was getting a ton of good interest, tons of amazing guests. And I just stopped. And I had all these excuses about why I stopped related to time. And one thing you may notice if you listen to old episodes or look at when the episodes were published, I stopped actually posting new episodes of the show right around the time virtual school started for my children. So it’s no secret. I’ve talked about it on the show. I have young children, and right now we are virtual schooling, all three of them, one of them isn’t even school aged, she’s a toddler.

(02:37):

And so it has been rough. And one of the things I was doing was telling myself, you know, I don’t have time to do that because I’ve got all these other things on my plate, which was true, but it really was a symptom of a bigger problem of me, upper limiting myself and not making time. And I was, instead of using the excuse that I didn’t have time when it really was a conscious choice on my part, which was fine. I am learning to give myself grace. That’s one of the things I want to talk about on the show today. And it’s been an interesting journey. I have been doing the virtual schooling, working from home at the same time because of COVID-19 and stay at home orders and sheltering in place for the health and safety of my family and myself.

(03:29):

And frankly, the past couple months, we’ve been really, really anxious about the election, the presidential election and the down-ballot election races in the United States. And so there’s been a lot going on and I just decided that I was going to prioritize myself. And I also really kind of decided that I was going to stop doing some of the things that I was doing. Like I was saying earlier, I now realize maybe some of that behavior was me getting in my own way. And I’ve talked about that a lot on my show. I talk about it a lot on my YouTube channel at shontavia.tv. I talk about it within the Brand and Business Academy, which is the training program that I’ve created, which gives an entrepreneurship formula to working professionals, especially women of color who want to start businesses. So there’s been a lot happening.

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And I think I got in my own way a little bit, and that’s just being completely transparent. I think oftentimes, you know, we talk about the really good things that happen, but we are not as transparent when things aren’t necessarily that great. And so I want to make sure I’m being transparent and that’s not to say great things haven’t happened. I’ve gotten some amazing opportunities over the past couple of months, I was invited to speak at Google to a group of students. I was quoted in an article that was written by Harvard’s journalism lab. I got an invitation to speak to the Smithsonian as part of a black innovators and entrepreneurs week. So that’s really exciting that’s happening mid-November. So there’s a lot of good stuff happening too. I just have really postponed some of the projects that I typically would devote a lot of time and energy to, like the Shontavia Show, but I am back.

(05:32):

I am so excited to be back this, these next couple of episodes, and really the remainder of the episodes for 2020 are going to be amazing. I have interviewed some amazing entrepreneurs already. People like Steph Humphrey, who is a tech expert, who is a branding expert, who is a regular on Strayhan Sara and Kiki among other things. Also talked to Julia Rock interview, Latesha Byrd, just some amazing and dynamic entrepreneurs that I’m excited to share with you as we get back into the swing of things with the show. So that goes to show you, it’s not that I’ve not been working. I’ve recorded these dynamic amazing episodes with dynamic amazing entrepreneurs. We just haven’t really released them yet. So it is going to be a lot of fun from here on out. Thank you to those of you who reached out to me, who wanted to know where episodes were. I’ve got something for you.

(06:31):

Just stick with me for a little while. This is the first episode, and I think about three months as I was saying before, but I will not leave you again. We are going to continue down this path. The show has been just an amazing experience for me, and I’m excited to get back into it.

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So during this entire COVID era. One of the things I’ve done is gotten back to my love of reading. And as I’ve gotten back to my love of reading, and I love reading business books, one of the things I found is that I just don’t see myself in those business books that everybody recommends. So one of the things I’ve done is created a book club for women of color entrepreneurs. And what this book club will do is help women of color deconstruct valuable lessons from the “most popular business and self-help books” while centering their own lives, their own stories and their own experiences.

(07:24):

If you’re interested in joining me, you can visit shontavia.com/bookclub That’s shontavia.com/bookclub, hope to see you there.

(07:38):

So one of the things I want to talk about today, really the thing I want to talk about today is surviving. So like I was saying earlier, I really feel like I was upper limiting myself because things are starting to go well. And, you know, I just exhibited a little bit of self-destructive behavior by stopping things that were going well, but simultaneously, I was surviving. We are in the middle of a global pandemic with COVID-19 right now, as of the recording of this episode, we’re in the middle of a very, very contentious post-election–and I don’t know if this is a conversation or conflict at this point–but in the U.S. Between the existing president, Donald Trump and the president elect Joe Biden. President elect Joe Biden has won enough electoral college votes to be the next president of the United States.

(08:40):

But the existing president, Donald Trump is not conceding that he lost. And it has caused, frankly, for me, a lot of anxiety about what’s happening, watching the news and seeing people fight and argue in the streets and all of that has been kind of nerve wracking. And then we still alsoare in the middle of anti-racist protests and the anti-racist movement in the U.S. There are also things happening around the world related to COVID related to police brutality and injustice. Wars people being killed in conflicts between countries. And it’s been a lot. It really, really has. So I want to use this episode to talk about survival and the thing I– the things I think entrepreneurs of color, especially, but even more, especially women of color, three things that I think you can do to survive this whole season that we are in right now.

(09:39):

So the first thing I think you can do is get educated. And I know just about all of my listeners are very, well-educated both formally and informally. You may have a few degrees, you may have a number of certifications or trainings or years of experience doing whatever you’re doing, or you may even be in college or graduate school or law school or whatever. But I want you to really think about where you need education right now, specifically as it relates to your ideas and your entrepreneurial endeavors. So I have taken some time to do a few things, even during these past three months, when I told you guys, I, I really kind of stopped doing some of the things that were working, but the thing that I’ve continued to do this whole year, including these past couple of months, or three months is educate myself.

(10:38):

I have taken at least three courses, and it may be more actually, I think it’s more like four or five courses related to things I wanted to learn. So earlier this year I took Danielle Leslie’s Course From Scratch. And Course From Scratch is basically an educational program that teaches you how to create an online course or online programs. And I took that course because I really wanted to figure out how to create systems around the work that I was doing with individual clients. I love doing work with individual clients. I loved my clients who I was working with in the past decade or so in my business, but I wanted to figure out how to help more people, how to create systems that would allow me to do that on a bigger scale. So I took Course From Scratch to learn, how do you actually build an online course? So that was the first course.

(11:31):

The second course I took was From Cash to Crypto, which is a course by Tonya Evans, who is a colleague, a business partner of mine, who is, I mean, she really is an expert in cryptocurrency. And so the most popular cryptocurrency you may have heard of is Bitcoin, though there are all types of cryptocurrencies out there, but I wanted to learn about these different types of financial systems and ways that I could participate. And I wanted to learn just what they were. If these were things I should be thinking about or not. I wanted to educate myself around that around just how to diversify my investment strategy. So I took that course from her. And then the final course I took was around creating systems in your businesses. So I mentioned, I took Danielle Leslie’s Course From Scratch to learn how to create an actual course and to Tonya Evans’s course around investment vehicles that are outside of fiat, which are traditional financial systems.

(12:34):

And then I took this course about creating systems in your business, which I’m trying to remember the entrepreneur’s name. Her name is Courtney Sanders. She’s an expert in building systems in businesses. So I took that course too. And so these courses cost me a few thousand dollars, but literally y’all in all of the courses I made my money back PLUS SOME. Just implementing these educational tools that I received from these courses. So all of these courses are in the high hundreds to the low thousand dollar range. And in all of those courses, with the knowledge I took, I made money. I got a good return on my investment within maybe three weeks of taking Danielle Leslie’s course and made the money back that I spent on her course, plus a bunch, probably 30 fold at this point, what I spent on the course.

(13:33):

And then From Cash to Crypto. One of the things I love about Tonya’s course, From Cash to Crypto, is it really teaches you not just what Bitcoin is, but how you can actually go about getting some, buying some. So she taught in the course how you go about buying Bitcoin. And I’m glad I did because when I started taking the course, it was about, I think one Bitcoin was about like $10,000 or so. And as we sit here today, I think it’s in the $15,000 range. So I’ve made money back consistently with the tools that I learned from Tonya’s course. And then even with the systems course from Courtney Sanders, I have made a great return on my investment just by building the systems that allow me to work hard once in my business, as I love to teach in the Brand and Business Academy building new systems that allow me to spend even less time on some of the day-to-day administrative email writing, posting online, that kind of thing.

(14:35):

So I can focus more on the other pieces of the business, including my actual clients and customers. So getting educated is so, so, so important, whatever that thing is, you want to learn, learn about it. Now I’m not saying go out and spend thousands of on a class or anything. Maybe you need to do that. Maybe you don’t. Maybe it’s something as simple as subscribing to a YouTube channel and watching videos or subscribing to an email newsletter, buying some books or whatever, but survival in this time, I really believe requires that we get educated. Including getting educated about political systems and political processes, because we really are sitting in a time in history right now, where the rules are going to matter a lot and the people who understand the rules will be able to best navigate what’s happening in the United States. And frankly, around the world, just getting educated is such an important thing for entrepreneurs to do right now.

(15:40):

So that’s the first thing, please, please, please get educated. That might mean taking a course. It might not mean taking a course. It might mean reading books, but please get educated. I think that will help you survive. The other thing I’ve been doing to educate myself is reading more books. So if you subscribed to my email newsletter, I’ve talked about this a bit. I’ve gotten back to my first love, which is books. I am a, I am a lover of books, a bibliophile. I love reading. I love tangible hard copies of books. I like listening to books and I’ve really gotten back into reading in 2020. And it has opened my eyes to so many different things, just doing more reading and engaging with the ideas of other people. And it’s got me thinking about how to implement those strategies and take those strategies to the next level in my own business.

(16:34):

So get educated. And it’s taken my mind away from some of the things happening in the world that are distracting me from my own focuses. Now, understanding, you know, we want to be engaged citizens. You want to make sure that you’re reaching out to and helping people who need help, but oftentimes we can get so caught up in the problems of everybody else in the world that we have no control over that we don’t take care of home first, right?

(17:02):

We don’t take care of the things that we want to do. We don’t pursue the ideas or the entrepreneurial endeavors. So getting educated is critical, especially right now.

(17:13):

The second thing you can do to survive, and please hear me out on this one, because when I say it, I think it may sound a little funny to some of you, but the thing I think you must do to survive in this time, I said it on Instagram a little bit differently, but what I’ll say on the show at least to start is we should pursue economic independence.

(17:37):

You should pursue economic independence. I should pursue economic independence. We need to be financially free so that if you are working in a job where you disagree with the way in which your company has made a stance or not made a stance against racist activity or against wrongful conduct or injustice in society, you can walk away from that without blowing up your entire life. You can have the freedom. If you have economic independence, that also means you have the freedom to say things that you might not be able to say if somebody else is signing your paycheck. So pursuing economic independence is a big one. The way I said it on Instagram was we need to get rich. And I believe that I believe we need to get rich. Entrepreneurs, especially people of color, women of color, black women who have entrepreneurial ideas, we need to get rich.

(18:36):

We need to be able to cut the check for causes we support. We need to be able to have enough money so that if we do say something that a client doesn’t like, or that an employer doesn’t like, again, it doesn’t blow up our entire lives. We need to get rich.

(18:51):

We need economic independence and not just for ourselves, but for the people we can help. Right? And I know this might sound a little tough right now during an era where I think 21 million people in the U.S. Are getting some type of unemployment benefits. In a time where 41% of black businesses have closed because of COVID-19. Where 25% of women-owned businesses have closed because of COVID-19. This is tough, right? Because we are living in a time that is hard for a lot of people. But, there are things we can do. There are ways that we can pursue our entrepreneurial endeavors, even though there’s so much economic instability around us.

(19:41):

So I encourage you right now. If you have an entrepreneurial idea, if you have registered that LLC or incorporated that corporation, pursue that idea, I think now is one of the best times to start a business–depending on the type of business it is and the way in which you can operate that business. We’re living in a time where people are at home, where people are working from home. So we might have a little more time because of not having to make that commute or not having to do some of the day-to-day things that we typically do. So I think now is an amazing time to start a business and people are having entrepreneurial success, even in the midst of COVID. You see black women like Rachel Rodgers and King Ashley Ann Jones on Instagram, who’s a marketing expert and others, Danielle Leslie is another one, who have said during this period, their businesses have crossed a million dollars in a day.

(20:44):

And so I think it’s possible for entrepreneurs to do really well right now, especially if you’re providing solutions to problems that are, are plaguing people right now. If you have a solution to a problem, especially a really good solution to a pressing problem, to a need that other people are having. I think you’re in a great position to do really well as an entrepreneur, even during this COVID era.

(21:12):

And this is especially true for women of color before COVID 89% of all women owned businesses that were started last year in 2019, were started by women of color, and black women were the largest demographic within that group. So we, women of color, black women, we are entrepreneurial already. We are more entrepreneurial than any other demographic group in the United States, more than men, more than white men, more than however you want to cut the, the, the gender and racial makeup of people, women of color, and especially black women, Hispanic and Latina, Hispanic women, and Latinas too, are leading the charge as it relates to entrepreneurship in the United States.

(21:57):

So pursuing economic independence is important, especially right now, as people are losing jobs, having to go back inside, if they ever left, like we basically have been inside. We haven’t left too much. But now is a great time to pursue your economic independence. Your economic freedom.

(22:15):

Now is the time to get rich, which leads to my third point. You shouldn’t get necessarily want to get rich just to fatten your own pockets. You want to get rich so that you can do good in the world. And while you’re doing all these things, make sure you also give yourself some grace. Right? And so I talked a little bit about giving yourself grace earlier when I was talking about myself and these past three months being so difficult. Yes, I was upper limiting myself. Yes. I took a lot of things off of my plate.

(22:45):

Yes, it is a very stressful period, but I also am learning every day how to give myself grace and say, you know what? Your best doesn’t always mean your absolute best. It means your absolute best today. And today might look different from tomorrow, which might’ve looked different from yesterday. So give yourself grace as you’re going out, making money and doing good. So what I mean by doing good doesn’t necessarily mean you have to go out and, you know, be Gandhi or Oprah Winfrey or a billionaire philanthropist, but do good, do good for other people. Maybe there are elderly people in your neighborhood who can’t go to the grocery store. You can go get groceries or order groceries and deliver them to their doorstep. Maybe it’s giving to charity, maybe it’s hashtag activism. So hashtag activism is something that gets a lot of negative vibes from folks.

(23:42):

And it gets a lot of negative feedback. Like it’s not really a difference, but think about how many times companies have gone viral for doing the wrong thing and changed course. Think about how many times a person has gone viral for being racist or sexist or xenophobic and lost their job. Think about how many times hashtags have spurred movements, whether it’s the Black Lives Matter movement or Defund the Police or like Bring Back Our Girls, raising awareness and those types of things with varying levels of success, of course. But hashtag activism works. And I won’t let anybody else tell me differently. You all know I spent a lot of years as an academic, as a law professor, I still work in higher ed, and in my research, which revolved around social media, entrepreneurship, social justice, and law. What at least I found in the research is hashtag activism can work. Being engaged online can work.

(24:46):

Donate to the runoff races in Georgia, help other people survive. You survive yourself, help other people survive. So I encourage you to do good, including doing good to yourself. If all you can do right now is survive, wake up every day and get the bare minimum accomplished, that is doing good, because you are no good to anybody else. If you’re not good to yourself, if you’re no good for yourself.

(25:13):

So I encourage you to do these three things, get educated, pursue economic independence, and do good in the world, including doing good to yourself.

(25:24):

Now I know this is a little bit of a different kind of episode for me, but I really have been thinking a lot about this as I have been figuring out the next steps for the show, for my brand and everything else.

(25:37):

But survival is so important right now. Yes, we can talk about marketing and intellectual property and all those other things, but you have to survive first, right? If you want to build a business that is going to survive and the way your business is going to survive, especially as you’re just getting started, is for you to survive. So I hope these suggestions help you. I hope something I’ve said has encouraged you to do these things. Get educated, pursue economic independence, and get rich and do good in the world and be good to yourself. Give yourself some grace.

(26:12):

Thank you so much for listening to this episode of The Shontavia Show. If you enjoyed this episode, please be sure to like, subscribe and leave a comment wherever you’re listening. You can find me on social media everywhere, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn, and wherever else @ShontaviaJEsq. You can also visit me at shontavia.com to find a transcript of this episode along with other show notes. While you’re there, please be sure to subscribe to my email newsletter.

(26:43):

The information shared in this podcast and through my other platforms is designed to educate you about business and entrepreneurship. And I love to do this work while I am a lawyer, though, the information I provide is not legal advice and does not create or constitute an attorney client relationship.

(27:01):

The Shontavia Show is a LVRG original. The show is recorded on site in South Carolina and produced at Sit N Spin Studio in Greenville, South Carolina .Original music and sound design is by Matt Morgan and Daniel Gregory.

 

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Questions and Action: What step can you take today to educate yourself, pursue economic independence, and/or do good? 

After you’ve had a chance to watch the video, I’d love to hear from you in the comments section!

Please answer the questions relevant to your current situation:

1. Is there a course, YouTube channel, podcast, or blog that will teach you the fundamentals of what you want to learn about?

2. Are you paying attention to your money? Are there new revenue streams you should pursue?

3. Where’s the simplest place you can do good for someone else? What’s an easy thing you can do for yourself?

Please give as much information as you can in response to these questions. The real education happens when we teach and learn from each other!

Thank you so much for joining me to build your brand and business.

I am eternally grateful that I get to do this work with you and others like you!